smellycat
New User
Hi all
Just wanted to say thank you for all your replies. It is nice to know what people think in this situation, and 6 pages of replies was highly unexpected. I can only assume that you guys know how I am feeling right now about losing my best buddy. Just to clarify I pay my livery monthly in advance so my YO has requested a months 'notice' despite there being no contract. I have not been in this situation before and upon leaving a yard in the past I have given a months notice.
In fairness, I did bring up the topic because my rent would be due soon and I did not wish to just cease payment under assumption that all would be ok.
However, I genuinely did not expect a response telling me that I needed to pay a month and that most people keep paying because they will get another horse in as a replacement (I had advised I would not be replacing my much loved pet). I have done many favours for the YO without expecting anything in return, so I guess I was being played in order to help around the yard as the kindness was definitely not two way.
I have now cleared the stable and tack room and will put it behind me as a reminder that some people are only nice when they are getting something from you.
Personally, I have always been one of those people who tries to help everybody and gives things to people even when they say no. I honestly expected some compassion from the YO but would have then offered either a gift or payment etc to thank her for helping my horse have such a great time since she has been there. (Of course now I don't wish to give a penny).
The YO did say that she was counting on the money (despite saying recently that she did not fill her stables as she does not need the money).
Once again, thank you for all your responses (it has made me feel a lot better). I just wish that I had found this forum prior to trying to research this situation as the information on here would have helped me with so many other horsey questions.
Just wanted to say thank you for all your replies. It is nice to know what people think in this situation, and 6 pages of replies was highly unexpected. I can only assume that you guys know how I am feeling right now about losing my best buddy. Just to clarify I pay my livery monthly in advance so my YO has requested a months 'notice' despite there being no contract. I have not been in this situation before and upon leaving a yard in the past I have given a months notice.
In fairness, I did bring up the topic because my rent would be due soon and I did not wish to just cease payment under assumption that all would be ok.
However, I genuinely did not expect a response telling me that I needed to pay a month and that most people keep paying because they will get another horse in as a replacement (I had advised I would not be replacing my much loved pet). I have done many favours for the YO without expecting anything in return, so I guess I was being played in order to help around the yard as the kindness was definitely not two way.
I have now cleared the stable and tack room and will put it behind me as a reminder that some people are only nice when they are getting something from you.
Personally, I have always been one of those people who tries to help everybody and gives things to people even when they say no. I honestly expected some compassion from the YO but would have then offered either a gift or payment etc to thank her for helping my horse have such a great time since she has been there. (Of course now I don't wish to give a penny).
The YO did say that she was counting on the money (despite saying recently that she did not fill her stables as she does not need the money).
Once again, thank you for all your responses (it has made me feel a lot better). I just wish that I had found this forum prior to trying to research this situation as the information on here would have helped me with so many other horsey questions.