Do you every think you short change your horse?

MochaDun

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I am having a bit of a slump due to various personal circumstances which limit what I can do with my horse due to finances and time. And today I've thought, am I restricting his enjoyment, interest, variety of activities and is that fair to him? I've had him 6 years and in that time after a tricky first year when we were, shall I say, "establishing our relationship" :rolleyes:, we've done 2 local showing classes, 2 local jumping classes, 2 years at the annual riding club camp, fun dressage day at yard, one proper dressage test, and about 2-3 riding club rallies a year. Beyond that, it's been fortnightly lessons, and hacking and schooling as I have no transport and can't afford to get any.

Both of us to me feel a bit flat at the moment. He's a native cob x and while you could never describe him as forward going, I know he perks up for jumping and does like variety. We used to have the most amazing hacking partner on the yard and went on a different hack/ride every weekend and would go out for 2-3 hours and I think at that time he was the fittest and happiest I've known him (had to keep up with a lively TB mare!) but that person had to move yards 3 years ago, I really miss her and since then our hacking has become a bit routine and not such long or varied hacks though I still have 1-2 lovely people to hack out with.

So do you ever feel you are short-changing your horse in terms of the spice of life and giving them not the same-old, same-old or is it enough to manage what you can afford to do in terms of time and money until things improve again?
 
My boy isn't in work and is adjusting to Old macs. It has been a big change to him as he was very fit. I have had a lovely time taking him for walks every day. it might sound a bit hippy dippy but its a real bonding exercise and we have a lovely chat on the way ;)

it might not be much but its cheap and its a change!
 
Chin up hun. I tend to do a lot of schooling with Genie and very little hacking and I sometime wonder if I'm making her stale, but we're lucky to be able to go out a lot for variety, and we have lots of things on-site varying from dressage to a yard show.

It's probably just a rough patch and I'm sure that things will pick up again.
 
I sometimes think this, but I think you have to remember all the horses & ponies who desperately need just a home - particularly in this financial climate. That's when I realise that although my gelding doesn't have a particularly "exciting" life - he does have a fantastic home where he is well cared for. I am sure he does't lose any sleep over what he could be doing! :D
 
Thanks all, maybe I'm just thinking too much as, as you say NH, he maybe is totally oblivious to the fact that he doesn't have an exciting life! Just so long as it involves grass and/or a haynet most of his needs are met in his eyes!
 
I wouldn't stress to much about it!:D If he is anything like my cob as long as he has food he will be happy - unlikely to be stressing out that he isn't competing at BSJA - if there was a competition for eating however.......;):D:D

Due to work commitments and moving my parents my two weren't ridden for nearly 10 days - are they 'bovvered?' not much!!:rolleyes::rolleyes::D However in the event their 'feed' (or handful of chaff and supplements!;)) is a minute later then they want they yell their heads off - are you getting the idea of where their priorities lie??:confused::D:D:D
 
I think I short change him as he doesn't have the fun of a herd, just his old pony pal (he's only rising 7 - she's a young 22 plus). I do feel he misses out in that way, although we do ride out with other horses.
 
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