Zoisrus
Well-Known Member
yorksG. My experience with social workers, the head of phsyciatric team here (Dr.), and mother's own GP have not in one iota encouraged my mother to accept help. In fact they have from the outset offended her and made her automatically "on the defense" so her ingrained answer to all offers of help is "I can manage". As for "would you want your health discussed with other family without your consent" the said social workers, Dr. et all have all contacted me without my prompting to do just that. They admit on one hand my mother's mental health is beyond her being able to make her own rational choices, yet on the other she can utter 3 words "I can manage" repeatedly parrot like. One thing that has disgusted me is the way they speak to mother, well not speak TO, but OVER her, to me in her presence. As though she is invisible. Or when they do speak to her, they shout, VERY LOUDLY, now mother is not deaf, and she does speak ENGLISH. And that to her with what dignity she has left to recognise is insulting.
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