Meowy Catkin
Meow!
I actually think that your ex-jockey friend is trying to do right by you. Some first time horse owners buy TB's because they are generally cheap (under £1000) and are attractive. However as they are buying their first ever horse, they don't buy the right TB for them, so it doesn't go well. Some owners of course, up their game (eg lots of lessons) and it's OK in the end, others end up selling the horse on, sometimes after their confidence has been damaged.
Try to ride as many different horses as you can so that you can experience many types of horse.
Try to ride as many different horses as you can so that you can experience many types of horse.