ThePinkPonyClub
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Thank you all for the very helpful advice, even the advice that wasn’t the nicest to hear. Again, I’m really glad I asked this question and have learnt so much from reading it all, I’m very grateful to you all.
I would just like to add that before this point we have done months of training and getting her used to rollers, the feel of girths ect, ect. Everything I have done with her has been slow and steady. It may well seem like a ‘lighthearted’ post by someone that knows nothing about horses (and while that isn’t true in many respects, she is my first youngster). I have an incredible trainer who I have weekly lessons with, and everything is done slowly and appropriately, with grate care.
Again, thank you all for all positive and negative criticisms, but please do consider that there is much more to a story other than what you may see or read in a short snippet on a post.
The roller in the below pictures is loose and not perfectly positioned, but I’m not here just to train my horse in only what perfection is. I’m here to teach her that sometimes things might not be perfectly or correctly placed, but that she still feels happy and confident in whatever I ask her to do, because hey nobody and nothing is perfect all the time. I want her to be a well rounded individual, not one that just loses it because something isn’t perfect (although in the case of the saddle I completely acknowledge that it’s imperative that I do not cause her pain, in anyway, hence why I asked for advice from you all
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It means far more to me that she trusts me with whatever I do with her, or whatever situation we face, rather than striving for perfection 100% of the time, because that’s not how life, or horses work
I want my horse to be a well rounded individual, that doesn’t lose it because something one day is down slightly differently than the day before.
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I would just like to add that before this point we have done months of training and getting her used to rollers, the feel of girths ect, ect. Everything I have done with her has been slow and steady. It may well seem like a ‘lighthearted’ post by someone that knows nothing about horses (and while that isn’t true in many respects, she is my first youngster). I have an incredible trainer who I have weekly lessons with, and everything is done slowly and appropriately, with grate care.
Again, thank you all for all positive and negative criticisms, but please do consider that there is much more to a story other than what you may see or read in a short snippet on a post.
The roller in the below pictures is loose and not perfectly positioned, but I’m not here just to train my horse in only what perfection is. I’m here to teach her that sometimes things might not be perfectly or correctly placed, but that she still feels happy and confident in whatever I ask her to do, because hey nobody and nothing is perfect all the time. I want her to be a well rounded individual, not one that just loses it because something isn’t perfect (although in the case of the saddle I completely acknowledge that it’s imperative that I do not cause her pain, in anyway, hence why I asked for advice from you all
It means far more to me that she trusts me with whatever I do with her, or whatever situation we face, rather than striving for perfection 100% of the time, because that’s not how life, or horses work
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