Dogs getting less tolerant as they get older?

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I had wondered if this was down to D perhaps being in pain in the weeks pre-op and of course post-op but thinking about it it started long before that, plus she's definitely not in any pain now and the behaviour is getting worse rather than better.

She has become, in short, a narky bitch. :o She used to be very gregarious, friendly and happy to play and interact with all dogs. These days I have to watch her like a hawk.

At agility training she took an intense dislike to a collie bitch (admittedly a very starey slinky one who likes to swing by at speed, grumbling, in a confrontational way). After a number of incidents where one or the other would break off halfway through a run to fly across the manege and nail the other they had to introduce a sort of beach windbreak thing that we now take turns standing behind while the other dog is doing their run.

Since then she's extended her narkyness to several other dogs. She was horrid at our last competition, I had to hold her by the collar in the queue as she took great exception to the dog behind us and sat with her upper lip curled back pulling snarl faces at it the whole time. :o

She will now have a pop at random dogs on walks. I say random because there seems to be no trigger that I can see, some dogs are greeted like long lost friends, some immediately set her bristling. I thought that some of this was down to protecting Ricoh and perhaps there is an element of this but she will even sometimes lash out now when walked on her own. Never anything serious, just lip-curls and handbags, but if the other dog retaliates in any way she would properly lay into them - thankfully it will never come to this as she is on a lead except on my own turf.

Is this just how she is now, is it a result of stepping up the training and competition type stuff, is there something I'm doing wrong? She'll be four in August. She still loves every hoomin she meets, this is specific to dogs only.
 
A bit like hoomins then?

It could be pain related, it could be stress related as the competitions hot up (one of the reasons I retired B...I could have pushed through it but the young one became available and he was more genetically suitable for the work)

Also if you are expecting there to be trouble, there generally will be trouble. If you are stressed or nervous waiting to compete, the dog will be too.

My young one is a bit of an arse with some other dogs, fine with others, as you say it is just handbags and lip curling, it looks and sounds not so pleasant but it is very brusquely brushed off and we keep moving and it is not allowed to develop and something I know to keep an eye on and under control.
 
Well yes, to be fair I am becoming a miserable baggage in my old age. :p

And yes I am hugely stressed and nervous while queuing because of the possbility of her either bogging off generally or bogging off in order to nail another dog, bit of a vicious circle there. I'm hoping we can start afresh in that regard, it'll be several weeks yet before we return to training. No competition of any kind until October, all things being well, and it'll be sleddy stuff first I think.

I would have been less concerned if it was just there but it's extended to home as well, it just seems a huge change from the dog that used to respond to a narky dog by playbowing at it, now she'd be gunning for it. :o

I also worry for R, she can be vile to him at times - they never fight, he capitulates instantly but she will snark and scruff him on walks if he dares overtake her. He's a worried soul anyway, poor lad.
 
You could take the opportunity of the rest period to sort it out, flood her (if she can cope with that) and I would definitely not be tolerating any nasty behaviour towards R.
 
R's companion dog show season (what, we have a silver tea tray to defend :p) starts in a couple of weeks so she will duly be dragged along. There's a BIG agility show locally at the weekend, I was considering taking her just to spectate but she will kick off to begin with. She could handle it, wouldn't do her any harm at all but I'd be livid if I were competing and there was a screaming wolf being dragged between the rings. Combination of wanting to do jumpies and wanting to eat the zoomy collies.

Lots of things to work on while we can't do zoomy jumpy pulling stuff. I've been making the time to work with them individually which has helped, I'd got into a bit of a rut of trying to teach them both at the same time.
 
Are there any other changes, like her coat, putting on weight etc? I'm just wondering if she's developed thyroid problems? Might be worth a blood test?
 
No nothing like that, coat is lovely (freshly blown!) and she's the same 24kg she was last year. I think they took a blood count before her surgery, will check next time we're in, got final x-rays soon. A few minor changes in household routine but really nothing drastic, even sensitive R isn't fussed.

She's also been inclined to guard treats/food (only from other dogs, not from humans) which she never used to do.
 
Brig dog has been like this for a while. He's 10 next month and used to ignore other dogs but has started being a bit defensive. He's always been a bit like this with the youngsters. I'm afraid he gets a verbal bo!!ocking as I won't have him intimidating the twins!
 
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