Hawkings
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I have a schoolmaster gelding out on long term loan, who Im thinking of selling. Hes worth around £6k at market value, and a friend of mine who does selling livery believes she could sell him fairly quickly to a decent home.
My dilemma is that I offered him to the loaner first a while ago, for a substantially reduced amount. The loaner has to be honest been a bit of a pain recently, communication has been terrible and sometimes it will take me days to get a response which has concerned me a lot. It didnt used to be this way so I can only think shes grown complacent. The horse itself is fine as I see social media updates etc and visit twice a year. Ive no doubt she adores my horse as hes a lovely sort, but her personal life is chaotic at the moment which I dont think has helped communication. There have been a few other incidents which have led me to losing patience and faith in her as a loaner unfortunately.
Would I be a terrible person for rescinding my offer to sell to the loaner and put my horse into sales livery with my friend? I want the best home for him which I trust my friend to be able to find for him.
My dilemma is that I offered him to the loaner first a while ago, for a substantially reduced amount. The loaner has to be honest been a bit of a pain recently, communication has been terrible and sometimes it will take me days to get a response which has concerned me a lot. It didnt used to be this way so I can only think shes grown complacent. The horse itself is fine as I see social media updates etc and visit twice a year. Ive no doubt she adores my horse as hes a lovely sort, but her personal life is chaotic at the moment which I dont think has helped communication. There have been a few other incidents which have led me to losing patience and faith in her as a loaner unfortunately.
Would I be a terrible person for rescinding my offer to sell to the loaner and put my horse into sales livery with my friend? I want the best home for him which I trust my friend to be able to find for him.