StoptheCavalry
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In recent years, I've had lessons from someone who describes themselves as "classical", someone who I'd imagine would describe herself as "German" and modern/ competitive (training purely for results), a SJ and now an eventer. My initial experience of the classical trainer was good but I found it became rather cult-like eventually; if you didn't do it this way you were doing it wrong and harming your horse, if you were struggling to get results it was because you were doing it wrong, confusing your horse, teaching him bad habits, had been watching heretical "modern competitive dressage" and trying do it that way.
I've just tried different things with my new horse until I've found what he likes and responds to. He prefers the way the eventer rides him, and teaches me, at the moment. The classical trainer did teach me a lot of really useful in hand and lungeing/long reining stuff, so I am continuing that work with him. I'd go back to that person for the ground/IH work but I don't get on with the ridden methods so well. The pony is bolshy, very "busy" in his brain, typical clever pony/native type brain and he just didn't settle in a very relaxed, softly softly "classical" lesson atmosphere. I think you have to take what works with for your horse at that particular moment. Elements of classical training work for mine so I use them and I used to be v pigheaded and say I'd never do it another way, but I realised it wasn't working and had to try another way which has proven more successful.
Your horse sounds a little similar to mine and you also seem to have had the same experience of the classical training as I did. I have actually gone back to using the flash as he is much more settled, not having it on seems to give him too much to think about which generally turns into naughtiness. I am certain I have not yet found the perfect bit/noseband combination but I would be hesitant to book another lesson with the classical trainer as I feel my use of the flash would be frowned upon as I would "Not be doing the right thing". However I do occasionally feel like this with a lot of naturally type horse people that if you're not doing it there way then you clearly want to hurt your horse and don't care about them quite enough.... BUT that's a debate for another day!!