Drifter goes Hacking - Very long only read if you understand fear.

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The background to this post is I cant hack out where I am and the only times I have been out with the Lad I have been to fun rides and bucked off big time and last Sunday had to be checked out in A & E.

So.........

Yesterday My OH and I went for a 2 hour walk and I was pretty tired when we got back. I was just tucking into a bacon Sandwich when the phone rang and it was my mate. She said the Sun is shining its perfect for a hack why don’t you box over.

My immediate instinct was oh dear god no I am going to die but of course I said yes please. Luckily I had just read the section in ‘The Fearless Horse’ which recommended how to get your horse to load. (Has no one written ‘The Fearless Rider yet?’)

So off I went to my doom got Drifter in and prepared him for travelling he hates his travel boots and so rewarded me by digging out his bed completely and break-dancing with his back legs. We loaded him wearing his bridle, a normal head collar with a lead rope attached and a controller head collar with a lunge line attached. Initially he would not go in but when we had the assistance of a young girl sweeping the yard behind him he went straight up the ramp. I did tell her to stay well back he only needed the sweeping sound of the brush and told her if he started to kick or back towards her she was to drop the broom and leg it.

He travelled very well and when I got to her yard he unloaded like a pussycat and was just very alert. We tied him up on the yard near Bella but not too near and he continued to break dance in the travel boots so we whipped them off and left him to chill out.

I gingerly tacked him up and prayed that I would not throw up in front of my friend. I had already agreed with myself that if things got too anxious I would just hand graze him and take him home again but she promised a quiet ‘pootle’ along lanes.

He was very alert and I spent most of my time working on not transmitting my anxiety down the reins. He likes Bella which helps and we went off for our little hack with me thinking wont say thank you until we get back in one piece.

We passed tractors, ride on lawn mowers and the major thingy of all we crossed a bridge over the M5 motorway when it was really busy.

Now you need to know I have a history with Motorway bridges. I once owned a grey mare called Daisy who when spooked would nap into the path of oncoming vehicles and famously napped on a motorway bridge and then reared waving her front legs perilously close to the inadequate rails. She gave me nightmares about dangling over bridges just hanging onto a buckle end of rein.

Anyway back to the point he was lovely. If the revolting Daisy taught me one thing it was that anxious horses need as much rein length as they can so that they don’t feel trapped so we duly walked across the motorway bridge holding the buckle end of the reins and singing baa baa black sheep.

His final trials were when we rode past an unexpected lone horse in a field we were at walk but the horse went ballistic and Drifter was quite worried but well behaved.

And then finally we rode back to the farm and there right beside the track was the biggest crackliest bonfire I have ever seen. The flames were shooting skyward and I thought “That’s it I am going to die!”.

He was a sweetheart anxious again but listened to my “Very Good Boy” voice and the tickles on his shoulder and went on past.

We untacked him and tied him up for another chill and then prepared for the loading battle. No Bridle this time just the double headcollars and two lead ropes. He didn’t like the travel boots going back on but he will have to get used to them as its better than having his legs mashed.

Well he just looked for a second felt the bit of pressure and “walk on” and went straight in. So there we have it.

Drifter and I went hacking with my worst friend and I am still alive.

She told me she had always planned to get me out but didnt give much warning so I would get a good nights sleep.

And now she emails me and tells me we are to hack out again on Wednesday.
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Now that is what I call a really good mate.

PS yes I wore my Body Protector.
 
Hi ya.

You horse seems to get anxious as soon as you get the travel boots on, have you travelled him without?? If its not far to your friends then it maybe wouldnt hurt to not put them on.

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Its sounds like you are both learning and getting more confident!! Its great.
 
Thats a very good point. I travelled him home from the fun rdie without as I was too concussed and didnt want him hurting anybody. I was thinking of bandaging his back legs next time to see if that helps him. I cant travel unbooted as I have seen the damage it can do.

As a matter of interest he also gets stressed when tied to the back of his trailer and I was thinking of doing some long term grooming feeding off him at home to settle this but not until he listens more.
 
What a fantastic post!
And one I can really relate to - especially the bit about thinking you are going to throw up! I can't believe you coped so well with all those spooky things, I think I would have had a nervous breakdown.
You did really well and I bet Drifter enjoyed getting out somewhere new.
Have fun and enjoy your hack on Wednesday. You have inspired me to ring my friend and see if I can take Jerry over to hers this week - I have never taken Jerry anywhere on our own before so that will be a new experience for us both!
 
Hmm..... or brushing, knee and hock boots!
Then you can hack/ride him at home with them too, then he wont know the difference lol!!

Sounds like you are making a great improvement though
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I must admit it has brought me out of a terrible depressive spiral it began to feel like the good old days when my friend and I went everywhere together with our horses.

I am going to celebrate by buying a new hat!
 
Well done to both of you!

Would definitely consider going down the not wearing travelling boots road! What sort are they? Are they the long ones? If so try and find the "old fashioned" shorter ones - it may help!!
 
brilliant, that was so great to read!

what travel boots do you use. Our mare is not good with them behind.

We started with an old shires squishy soft pair and would boot up for whatever we were doing when we arrived underneath.

They finally had it and in the knowledge that the stiffer they were the more she would struggle. we opted for a polypads pair.

To start I took her into the field, put them on and let her go after a bit of a wobble/kick/trot round she soon settled to graze. We still leave them till last though and she will have a little hop behind as you lead her off even though she normally wears them twice a week. Interestingly when she has finished the activity she is much better with them to come home.
 
He he, your post made me laugh, you're a good story teller!!!
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Well done though, that was fab. As far as the boot problem goes, I don't boot my boy at all since hearing race horses travel everywhere unbooted then I thought my sturdy coblet could cope fine, I've never been convinced as to how much protection they actually give anyway.

Once again well done to you both
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what a great story. An ispiration to other nervous nellies!
Incidently i dont travel my boy with boots on when we go out locally as it winds him up. Although when we start venturing further afield he will have to wear them.x
 
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for you and Drifter!!!

Fabulous post, and an extra big well done to you both. There'll be no stopping you now!!!!!
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Great news!!
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Yey! I was worried that you were building up to something bad happening, but i'm really glad he was so good
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The more you do it the less it will bother both of you, so have a good time on wednesday
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big pats for both of you
 
Well done, I can understand your fears, well done for overcoming them too. I agree with other posters about rethinking the travel boots, for something smaller.
 
Hi,

This is brilliant; you're brilliant. I have also had bad experiences so I am not a fan of galloping out on hacks now
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. I love to do hill work and things though. It is so good for the horses and your confidence is worth everything.

You've been through quite a lot with your previous mare but now you should be able to gain confidence through pootling. Everyone loves to pootle.
 
Waheeey!
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It's the best feeling in the world when you do something you're terrified of and it goes so well.
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I'm the most nervous rider I've ever met (if you can say I've "met" myself!), but I'm getting better every day so I know how brilliant it is when you do something you never thought you'd be able to.
 
I read that with baited breath expecting the worst from the way you told it, and when I got to the motorway bridge I almost couldn't read more. Told with a true story tellers twist, even at the end I was wondering what next had gone wrong - well done in overcoming your nerves and what a star he was.
 
What a fantastic post, I am so glad that he behaved and you had a great ride together.
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I hope you manage to find an alternative to the travel boots or he gets better wearing them. Have you tried putting them on every day hopefully if it happens often enough he may get used to wearing them.
 
Oh well done you!! im so pleased for you!!
With the travel boot thing my mare will not travel with boots on, so i dont use them and since i stopped using them ive never had a problem!. If my other mare needs to go anywhere i use thermatex leg wraps as they are soft and not too long.

Hope you have a fab hack on wed!!
 
Anyway back to the point he was lovely. If the revolting Daisy taught me one thing it was that anxious horses need as much rein length as they can so that they don’t feel trapped so we duly walked across the motorway bridge holding the buckle end of the reins and singing baa baa black sheep.


Love that bit
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. Very, very well done you, and the Lad. Hugs to you hun.
 
LOL - that made me chuckle - you should write short stories for horse magazines
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I don't use travel boots, I am paranoid that she will tread on one, drag it down and then panic to get it off!! Anything for an easy life
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I'm glad it went really well and I hope its the start of many great hacks.

Can you try and build on that experience and not relate everything back to things that have happened before (with other horses) so you've got a positive mindset and not a negative one.

When things start to worry me I start singing 'Don't worry about a thing... every little thing will be alright......' It's worked so far....
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Unfortunatly the mare Daisy was the horse from hell and I owned her 20 years ago. She wrecked my confidence and when the chips are down the bad memories come back. My next mare Rhoda fixed me but had to retire 5 years after I bought her she prepare me for Gully and he was my hero for 14 years.
 
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