I think you just have to find a 'normal' one and break them in to meet your own criteria. you have to be careful and not do too much too soon or they get headshy and silly and you have to turn them away and rough them off. Good luck with your search....;-)
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I think you just have to find a 'normal' one and break them in to meet your own criteria. you have to be careful and not do too much too soon or they get headshy and silly and you have to turn them away and rough them off. Good luck with your search....;-)
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Lol!!! My plan for this hasn't gone very well, i think he's unfit for purpose, can i return him to the dealer in exchange for something more suitable?
I knew a couple... the best looking one, who evented was gay
The other was a **** and so not worth even talking to. That's why he's single
SMUGLY - im lucky date a mechanic who fixes my 4x4 and trailer for nowt and pays for shoeing, rugs, stands in rain holding horses, maybe i should be nicer to him.
I found one who used to ride at a riding school as teenager and married him quickly before he could discover just how completely horse ownership takes over your life. I kept very quiet about horses until we had signed that marriage certificare
now he is an absolute saint, lets me work part time, pays for the horses, never begrudges a vet bill.... I really should be nicer to him.
didn't have horses when i got together with my ex, when i did get them he ended up getting jealous, dislikeing them and after 2 1/2 years i am single.
haven't found a single equestrian man yet
No, they aren't! I met my OH playing polo. Disclaimer - we probably won't have kids, we'll just have more horses. Suits me fine
On the downside, we row cataclysmically over the best way to school a horse. On the plus side, he buys very expensive saddles for birthday presents and knows which brand to get!
I love polo - been to a few matches seen some lovely guys but all seem to be with someone- maybe i will try again this summer - they are very fit. Sounds like you are a lucky one
Once you've surgically removed the 'chukka chicks' off them, they are quite nice really! And they have the added bonus that they come with their own lorry...
I think someone should organise an Equestrian Mixer - a Ball that brings together all the ladies and gents of jumping, dressage, polo, eventing etc...there would be a good mix of people and a chance to meet some equestrian blokes who can tell the difference between a wither and a fetlock! All the blokes are in show jumping & polo...
I went for a man who describes horse's as smelly, time consuming, money grabbers! But while I have been out of work he has supported me and my horse, paying for shoeing, feed, livery etc. He's an angel and wouldn't swap him for the world!!
I too have gone down the horse box mechanic route, and fortunately he also diversifies into stable building, concrete layingm fence making and gate welding.... His Mothers and sister had horses, so he's well versed in mucking out and leading to field etc. but has no desire to ride- fine, that's my hobby.
I used to be a single equestrian male but then I got snared age 30.
I do not expect my wife to clean my tack (her standards aren't good enough).
I do fix the lorry and anything else that breaks, drive her and both children to comps, exercise her horse for her, do all the clipping and have my own horse which I compete
The reason us single horsey men are single is that our horses take up so much time! (..and then there is the field and stable maintenance not forgetting the horsebox, and keeping the house clean)!
...and of course local bridleway and road safety issues.
(Must squeeze in some work as well).