Luckylocalian
Well-Known Member
Hi all
Little dilemma and I would love some advice. I sent my horse to a pro who wanted to try him (because I am having a really tough time with work and money and I am very little and am struggling to xc my 17'2+ youngster). I asked the groom at my livery yard (who lives on site) and she said I would only have to pay a box retainer for the time he was off of the yard. I told the head girl and all the grooms that he was going for at least a week and was not sure when he would be back. All good, pony goes off on trial I go to stay at my parents for a week's holiday to take advantage of free time!
Anyway, after the weekend's perfomance my pony put in I make the heartbreaking decision to sell him and to leave him at the pro's to run him a few more times and find the best possible home for him. I have never sold a horse before and I am devestated (he is the only one I have) but it is the best decision for him and I have to do what's right for him. So the yard calls me at the weekend to tell me that I have to pay full livery (£105 a week) for the time that he is not there and that the groom I spoke to got it wrong. After lots of tooing and froing I finally get to talk to the owner face to face (through some serious avoiding). I was very nice and explained how dificult this was and that I made the decisions I made based on the information I was given and there was no way that I could afford to pay full livery and my pro fees when the horse was not there. The owner shouted at me repeatedly and was extremely rude saying I would pay the whole £500 (she wants me to pay for a month's notice if I am not bringing him back even tho I explained this to the grooms and was told I would not have to pay this). I asked if she could backdate my notice by a week as a compromise for being given the wrong info and she shouted (repeatedly) "no you will pay". Then I asked if instead she could deduct cost of food and bedding and I would pay the rest and she refused shouting at me aggressively etc etc. In the end she said I pay it or she sues me. So I asked finally if I could take the feed, bedding etc that I was paying for and not using and she almost hit me she was so mad!!! All the time I was speaking normally and she was going wild at me!
I am so upset as I have to sell my horse and I did everything by the book and they are making it impossible for me. If I have to pay over £1200 on livery this month it will bankrupt me. I moved everything I own off the yard yesterday but I don't know what the best way to proceed is. Any advice?? So sorry for long message!!! I don't know how I keep coming across these nutters, I am a nice person honest!!! xx
Little dilemma and I would love some advice. I sent my horse to a pro who wanted to try him (because I am having a really tough time with work and money and I am very little and am struggling to xc my 17'2+ youngster). I asked the groom at my livery yard (who lives on site) and she said I would only have to pay a box retainer for the time he was off of the yard. I told the head girl and all the grooms that he was going for at least a week and was not sure when he would be back. All good, pony goes off on trial I go to stay at my parents for a week's holiday to take advantage of free time!
Anyway, after the weekend's perfomance my pony put in I make the heartbreaking decision to sell him and to leave him at the pro's to run him a few more times and find the best possible home for him. I have never sold a horse before and I am devestated (he is the only one I have) but it is the best decision for him and I have to do what's right for him. So the yard calls me at the weekend to tell me that I have to pay full livery (£105 a week) for the time that he is not there and that the groom I spoke to got it wrong. After lots of tooing and froing I finally get to talk to the owner face to face (through some serious avoiding). I was very nice and explained how dificult this was and that I made the decisions I made based on the information I was given and there was no way that I could afford to pay full livery and my pro fees when the horse was not there. The owner shouted at me repeatedly and was extremely rude saying I would pay the whole £500 (she wants me to pay for a month's notice if I am not bringing him back even tho I explained this to the grooms and was told I would not have to pay this). I asked if she could backdate my notice by a week as a compromise for being given the wrong info and she shouted (repeatedly) "no you will pay". Then I asked if instead she could deduct cost of food and bedding and I would pay the rest and she refused shouting at me aggressively etc etc. In the end she said I pay it or she sues me. So I asked finally if I could take the feed, bedding etc that I was paying for and not using and she almost hit me she was so mad!!! All the time I was speaking normally and she was going wild at me!
I am so upset as I have to sell my horse and I did everything by the book and they are making it impossible for me. If I have to pay over £1200 on livery this month it will bankrupt me. I moved everything I own off the yard yesterday but I don't know what the best way to proceed is. Any advice?? So sorry for long message!!! I don't know how I keep coming across these nutters, I am a nice person honest!!! xx