Feel like a bit of a rubbish owner.

Cash

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Just a warning: this is going to probably all sound really silly and ridiculous on my part but here we go.
I just got back from the yard. My dad was picking me up and was in a hurry to drop me home as he's going out, so asked me to be ready ASAP.
I had a great ride, Cash was so good (as opposed to yesterday when he just seemed to be having an 'off day') so I was very pleased.
As I was getting off he put his head down and foot over rein..cue head coming up and broken rein...grrr. My fault I know as I should have held on tight to the reins as I got off...such a silly mistake that will now cost me the price of new reins :( Luckily it was very quick so Cash was not panicked and mouth not sore or anything.
Then I was putting his bed down with him tied up outside a couple of doors down, and as I came out of the stable, I dropped the fork. Cash spooked, broke away and then went running round the yard, panicking because the rope was swinging and hitting him. Got him caught after a minute or two and calmed him down. By this point I was running v late, and had to basically chuck him in stable with hay and leave, after asking someone else to put his rug on (he was a bit wet coz I'd hosed him down) and give him his feed a bit later, and just check that he settles down.
It sounds really stupid, but I feel really bad particularly as I've only had him a month, so still settling in and he's a bit of a stresshead on the ground at the best of times- he wasn't exactly upset once in his stable and when I had to go, more worried and a bit startled :( Annoyed that I wound him up by rushing, and then left him when I should have stayed and been nice to him for a bit.
Like I say, this is a ridiculous post, and I'm happy for you all to tell me what an eejit i'm being, but just feel like I messed up when I've been trying for the last month to get him calm and happy in the stable and on the yard.
 
Think we'll all have had days when everything seems to go wrong, but at least you'll learn from your mistakes :)
 
No worries, it's a pretty normal feeling when you've had one of those days that we all dread, but remember, tomorrows a new day :)
 
Yes that's true, just hope he doesn't remember it tomorrow and set himself back in terms of his progress on the ground :(
 
aww, i wouldn't worry! :p
I fell off once, really stupidly- my horse just like turned around, and i fell off- lool. and broke my reins. i felt like such a good coz i had to walk back to the yard. ahah.
seriously though, dont worry :) :D
 
Nobody's perfect, we all have bad days - just put it down to experience and don't stress yourself out about it.
 
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