classybutwild
Well-Known Member
I really don't know what to do anymore, i've had my horse 3 years, it just seems its one thing after another, he hasn't been ridden in over a year due to my back problems and then my surgery, i love him so much but i don't think he is now the horse for me.
He's always been spooky and i dread the thought of bringing him back to work, he was so much better before my back problems., i know its because he hasn't been out and about, ridden and to top it off he lost his companion (made things so much worse). I've got him a companion and he is better in his field now more relaxed. He just seems to be a naturally nervy horse, spooks at silly things in his field, can't even take a photo of him with flash he goes bananas. I brought him after a 7 year break from horses and now i don't know weather i want to do this anymore, i can't enjoy him with this silly behavior.
I just don't feel confident bringing him back to work as im afraid i will do my back in as he can go from plod to sharp when he spooks he is however 100% on roads, but scares himself on fields and woodland, i know its genuine as he will physically shake, he's not a naughty horse, i've never come off him.
I don't know weather its because i've lost my confidence, over horsed myself, im toying with the idea of selling him, giving up or swap for something more suitable, i just want a happy hacker now, the poor boy is only 10 and has so much potential, i've tried looking for a rider to no avail, i haven't got the money really to pay someone to do it. Pointless post really just needed to write how i felt
He's always been spooky and i dread the thought of bringing him back to work, he was so much better before my back problems., i know its because he hasn't been out and about, ridden and to top it off he lost his companion (made things so much worse). I've got him a companion and he is better in his field now more relaxed. He just seems to be a naturally nervy horse, spooks at silly things in his field, can't even take a photo of him with flash he goes bananas. I brought him after a 7 year break from horses and now i don't know weather i want to do this anymore, i can't enjoy him with this silly behavior.
I just don't feel confident bringing him back to work as im afraid i will do my back in as he can go from plod to sharp when he spooks he is however 100% on roads, but scares himself on fields and woodland, i know its genuine as he will physically shake, he's not a naughty horse, i've never come off him.
I don't know weather its because i've lost my confidence, over horsed myself, im toying with the idea of selling him, giving up or swap for something more suitable, i just want a happy hacker now, the poor boy is only 10 and has so much potential, i've tried looking for a rider to no avail, i haven't got the money really to pay someone to do it. Pointless post really just needed to write how i felt