weesophz
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its a long one guys..
unsure if any of you know that i had the physio to fox a few weeks ago and got his saddle refitted and gave him some time off. lunged him and he was fine, got on him again and he was still a bit off so gave him another wee while off.
sharer 1 text me during the week last week saying fox was a nightmare and was bucking and broncing with her which he never does and kicking out in his stable, so i thought it was maybe time for the vet. i took him out at the weekend myself on the lunge to see how he was moving as i hadnt seen him act up personally and he had a massive yahoo. and i dont mean a few wee bucks i mean he went for it like nothing else! got on him and he was fine, a bit all over the place but i put it down to the fact hes not been worked properly for at least 2 months now. the horses havent been turned out in i dont know how long either so i think he was in desperate need of letting off some steam!
was speaking to one of the other liveries and she was telling me that newer sharer (lets call him sharer 2 lol) was telling her that he was actually quite scared of fox and she was saying when fox swished his tail or put his ears back sharer 2 just did something else and if he acted up while being ridden sharer 2 just got off. so now im thinking, perhaps nothing is wrong with dear old fox and hes just taken the pee completely since sharer 2 has been letting him away with absolute murder. im a bit miffed cos when i ask sharer 2 how hes getting on he will just say fine and theyve had a good day.
so i dont know what to do. have spoken to sharer 2 (hes on holiday just now but text to ask how fox is) and said to him we will need to have a chat when hes back and sort all this out. meanwhile me and sharer 1 are concentrating on getting fox back to how he was before all this nonsense started.
asked the livery who was telling me about sharer 2 being a bit feart what i should do, should i work through it or tell him its not really working out? she said i should work through it but in my heart of hearts i feel like sharer 2 may let fox continue down this path and undo all our hard work
hes such a lovely guy and i dont want to make him feel bad or anything like that. id even told him he could get lessons on fox cos he admitted his riding wasnt what it used to be but he never got any.
i just feel confused cos i dont know whats caused fox to act up. is it the fact theyve been in for so long? is it that sharer 2 doesnt have the confidence that fox needs to be kept in line? i just dont know
i dont even know the point of this thread haha my heads a mush and i just needed to get all this out!
i have bourbons and tea if you didnt get bored reading that!
unsure if any of you know that i had the physio to fox a few weeks ago and got his saddle refitted and gave him some time off. lunged him and he was fine, got on him again and he was still a bit off so gave him another wee while off.
sharer 1 text me during the week last week saying fox was a nightmare and was bucking and broncing with her which he never does and kicking out in his stable, so i thought it was maybe time for the vet. i took him out at the weekend myself on the lunge to see how he was moving as i hadnt seen him act up personally and he had a massive yahoo. and i dont mean a few wee bucks i mean he went for it like nothing else! got on him and he was fine, a bit all over the place but i put it down to the fact hes not been worked properly for at least 2 months now. the horses havent been turned out in i dont know how long either so i think he was in desperate need of letting off some steam!
was speaking to one of the other liveries and she was telling me that newer sharer (lets call him sharer 2 lol) was telling her that he was actually quite scared of fox and she was saying when fox swished his tail or put his ears back sharer 2 just did something else and if he acted up while being ridden sharer 2 just got off. so now im thinking, perhaps nothing is wrong with dear old fox and hes just taken the pee completely since sharer 2 has been letting him away with absolute murder. im a bit miffed cos when i ask sharer 2 how hes getting on he will just say fine and theyve had a good day.
so i dont know what to do. have spoken to sharer 2 (hes on holiday just now but text to ask how fox is) and said to him we will need to have a chat when hes back and sort all this out. meanwhile me and sharer 1 are concentrating on getting fox back to how he was before all this nonsense started.
asked the livery who was telling me about sharer 2 being a bit feart what i should do, should i work through it or tell him its not really working out? she said i should work through it but in my heart of hearts i feel like sharer 2 may let fox continue down this path and undo all our hard work
i just feel confused cos i dont know whats caused fox to act up. is it the fact theyve been in for so long? is it that sharer 2 doesnt have the confidence that fox needs to be kept in line? i just dont know
i have bourbons and tea if you didnt get bored reading that!