brownhorse32
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Bit of a long story. My horse of a lifetime was PTS quite suddenly about a year ago. In the rush to not have an empty stable/while feeling quite broken, I bought a new horse. On the advice of an experienced friend, I didn’t have him vetted (I know, idiot!). Did however have my vet perform flexions/saw him lunge on hard and soft before cracking on with work.
He’s a nice horse to ride. Irish, good brain, handsome, good size, young. But incredibly bolshy on the floor and has a real attitude to handle if you try to move him around or tell him what to do. He’s kicked out at me, swung his bum and often tries to bite people/pulls faces. To ride, he’s an angel. Hacks and hunts like a saint, jumps anything, not spooky or silly and never hots up. However, I just can’t click with him. I don’t really like him and am begrudging the almost £800 I’m spending on him a month. I dread going up and have totally fallen out of love with riding/horses.
So I made the decision to sell him and felt relieved/happy. And then he started being incredibly sour in the school - he’s never been too happy schooling (he prefers to hack), but this was proper attitude - rearing, trying to kick people on the ground, pulling faces.
Got him booked in at the vets for a full work up, thinking it was ulcers. He scoped clear and was instead diagnosed with navicular in both front feet.
Currently finishing up the rehab, is sound and vet is very positive about his future.
However now I feel totally stuck. I don’t think we’re happy with each other: he enjoys hacking and hunting, whereas I bought him to event. I’m not sure how he’ll stand up to XC and plus, I don’t think he’s got the attitude to really try (or not compared to my old horse - and I’ve been *really* trying to not compare them). And honestly, I just can’t imagine myself being happy with him.
But how can I sell a horse with navicular? Is there even a market for young hack/hunt horses with this disease? He’s sound now but I wouldn’t want to sell without disclosing this. And as he’s such a good looking horse, I can imagine some people would sell on and make a lot of money (I bought him for almost 6k).
Obviously there’s PTS but that feels quite dramatic at the moment when he’s sound and marches out around the woods. But I’d rather do that than risk him getting passed from pillar to post…
I sound like an awful person and I want to make it clear that he gets - and will continue to get - the best care/treatment. I just don’t have ‘that’ connection with him. And I don’t know what to do next. It’s making me feel sick and stressed constantly, as well as just sad about my old horse, sad for this horse and just hugely guilty.
If it comes to it, I’ll keep him and just have a very expensive pet. I will do best by him, but equally this is what I spend all my money and time on, and I want to ride, compete and have a horse I love and enjoy.
So I guess I’m after any suggestions? Any reality checks? I’m just at a total loss and don’t know what to do.
Blimey - that was an essay. Thanks if you get this far!
He’s a nice horse to ride. Irish, good brain, handsome, good size, young. But incredibly bolshy on the floor and has a real attitude to handle if you try to move him around or tell him what to do. He’s kicked out at me, swung his bum and often tries to bite people/pulls faces. To ride, he’s an angel. Hacks and hunts like a saint, jumps anything, not spooky or silly and never hots up. However, I just can’t click with him. I don’t really like him and am begrudging the almost £800 I’m spending on him a month. I dread going up and have totally fallen out of love with riding/horses.
So I made the decision to sell him and felt relieved/happy. And then he started being incredibly sour in the school - he’s never been too happy schooling (he prefers to hack), but this was proper attitude - rearing, trying to kick people on the ground, pulling faces.
Got him booked in at the vets for a full work up, thinking it was ulcers. He scoped clear and was instead diagnosed with navicular in both front feet.
Currently finishing up the rehab, is sound and vet is very positive about his future.
However now I feel totally stuck. I don’t think we’re happy with each other: he enjoys hacking and hunting, whereas I bought him to event. I’m not sure how he’ll stand up to XC and plus, I don’t think he’s got the attitude to really try (or not compared to my old horse - and I’ve been *really* trying to not compare them). And honestly, I just can’t imagine myself being happy with him.
But how can I sell a horse with navicular? Is there even a market for young hack/hunt horses with this disease? He’s sound now but I wouldn’t want to sell without disclosing this. And as he’s such a good looking horse, I can imagine some people would sell on and make a lot of money (I bought him for almost 6k).
Obviously there’s PTS but that feels quite dramatic at the moment when he’s sound and marches out around the woods. But I’d rather do that than risk him getting passed from pillar to post…
I sound like an awful person and I want to make it clear that he gets - and will continue to get - the best care/treatment. I just don’t have ‘that’ connection with him. And I don’t know what to do next. It’s making me feel sick and stressed constantly, as well as just sad about my old horse, sad for this horse and just hugely guilty.
If it comes to it, I’ll keep him and just have a very expensive pet. I will do best by him, but equally this is what I spend all my money and time on, and I want to ride, compete and have a horse I love and enjoy.
So I guess I’m after any suggestions? Any reality checks? I’m just at a total loss and don’t know what to do.
Blimey - that was an essay. Thanks if you get this far!