lennysmith
Well-Known Member
I didn't think would happen, but looks like it's going to.
I'm starting to feel really pushed out as far as Denver is concerned.
Since weaning my friend and I are sharing him. This was agreed ages ago. However, I have had hardley anything to do with him anymore. She gets up the stables early, (6.30 ish) and mucks him and her boy out, makes feed, grooms etc. I cant get there that early I have 2 small kiddies. By the time I get there at 8 he is done. Fair enough.
I go down once baby sitter is here in eve. I went down tonight and mucked out and spent some time with him. She told me to leave the mucking out as she'll do him in the eve while her boy is cooling down after riding. I then got told the feeds I made him yesterday were too big so she'd do them from now on. I feel so low.
I have cared for this baby since day 1. I know we are sharing him, I know she adores him as much as I do. But I'm really struggling.
It was me who faught for his life when Josie got the dreaded placentitis. It was me who found him on the stable floor when he was born. I have been the one who has trugded up and down that field all summer to feed and look after him and his mum. Yes my friend held him and did some bits with him while I was riding, I'm grateful for that. I just feel like I'm losing him.
They have been separated for a week now and in that time I have fed him once (feeds were too big apparently) and mucked him out once (tonight, she'll do him from now on).
I would suggest us having seperate days, but it wouldn't work. She'd get stroppy and say it was unfair as she is always there. Looks liek I'm going to have to play second fiddle.
She has no responsibilities, and is a lot more knowledgeable than me, and uses this. He's always done fed and watered by the time I get there. I feel like I'm losing my baby
Sorry for the winge, I dont expect anyone to reply, just needed to 'tell' someone. Thanks for reading. xx
I'm starting to feel really pushed out as far as Denver is concerned.
Since weaning my friend and I are sharing him. This was agreed ages ago. However, I have had hardley anything to do with him anymore. She gets up the stables early, (6.30 ish) and mucks him and her boy out, makes feed, grooms etc. I cant get there that early I have 2 small kiddies. By the time I get there at 8 he is done. Fair enough.
I go down once baby sitter is here in eve. I went down tonight and mucked out and spent some time with him. She told me to leave the mucking out as she'll do him in the eve while her boy is cooling down after riding. I then got told the feeds I made him yesterday were too big so she'd do them from now on. I feel so low.
I have cared for this baby since day 1. I know we are sharing him, I know she adores him as much as I do. But I'm really struggling.
It was me who faught for his life when Josie got the dreaded placentitis. It was me who found him on the stable floor when he was born. I have been the one who has trugded up and down that field all summer to feed and look after him and his mum. Yes my friend held him and did some bits with him while I was riding, I'm grateful for that. I just feel like I'm losing him.
They have been separated for a week now and in that time I have fed him once (feeds were too big apparently) and mucked him out once (tonight, she'll do him from now on).
I would suggest us having seperate days, but it wouldn't work. She'd get stroppy and say it was unfair as she is always there. Looks liek I'm going to have to play second fiddle.
She has no responsibilities, and is a lot more knowledgeable than me, and uses this. He's always done fed and watered by the time I get there. I feel like I'm losing my baby
Sorry for the winge, I dont expect anyone to reply, just needed to 'tell' someone. Thanks for reading. xx