Maesfen
Extremely Old Nag!
Like everyone else here, I feel so sad and let down for you, I personally want to shake her; can she not see how unhappy she is making you?
A letter is a good idea and at the risk of playing the same old record, he is yours after all so you should be the one that is setting the ground rules not her even if she does profess to knowitall!
You have done a great job so far, don't let this get you down. If she is a true friend, she will understand how you feel and alter accordingly, on the other hand, if she is a true friend she should have FELT how you feel before this and changed her ways. Be nice but be firm and YOU lay down the ground rules; if she doesn't like it then the worst thing that will happen will be finding another sharer if you can't afford the whole of his livery yourself; I'm sure someone will leap at the chance, I know I would if I was down there and I'm sure some of the others on here feel the same way about D.
Take care, take steps and chin up; you know you can be strong.
A letter is a good idea and at the risk of playing the same old record, he is yours after all so you should be the one that is setting the ground rules not her even if she does profess to knowitall!
You have done a great job so far, don't let this get you down. If she is a true friend, she will understand how you feel and alter accordingly, on the other hand, if she is a true friend she should have FELT how you feel before this and changed her ways. Be nice but be firm and YOU lay down the ground rules; if she doesn't like it then the worst thing that will happen will be finding another sharer if you can't afford the whole of his livery yourself; I'm sure someone will leap at the chance, I know I would if I was down there and I'm sure some of the others on here feel the same way about D.
Take care, take steps and chin up; you know you can be strong.