Winters100
Well-Known Member
I'll admit I got some bullying on my full livery yard from the one diy client who said people like me shouldn't have horses.
That is utterly absurd. People seem to have some idea that horses care about who feeds them or washes their legs. We have a terribly nice lady who has the paddock next to mine, and her Mother is always pointing out how much my horses 'love' me, because they whinny and come to the gate at lunchtime or follow me without a rope. I really like her, but let's be honest they are coming for food and they follow me because this is what they were trained to do. I adore my horses, and am very grateful that I can be with them every day, but they simply view me as someone who is not a threat, is calm and consistent and expects certain things, and who brings food. I usually give lunch so they call to me at lunchtime, if I am there in the evening when the groom feeds they call to him. We are not the only ones who can care for our horses, and over the years I have been very grateful for advice and help from experienced YOs.