Finally we have hada hiccup with Freddie! Advice please

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So Mr Feral Freddie moves with us to a new home away from his herd and he turns into a lovely quiet person, and as most of you know I have been waiting for this day!

Anyway when we first moved him we put him in with a TB mare who turned coltish and we seperated them within 1 day, Mare calmed down, Freddie came to us as his contact point and we capatalised on his vulnerability, and have done lots with him....... 2 days ago the TB has lost condition, so we wanted to put her in the field next to Freddie which had lots of grass, so we moved her and she was very wild, trying to break through the fence, anyway next morning she had broken into the field with him and all was well, they were even grooming each other a little bit, shes still a little squealy but they are obviously becoming attached, yesterday we went to the field and had to catch him rather than him coming running to us (we understand this is normal as he now has a friend) but he did his little session with us good as gold in the yard, finishing up as usual in his stable for a feed then back up to field.

Today we caught him and he didn't want to leave field again understandable he now has a friend, but he did leave, we bridled him, saddled him,spent literally 5 mins playing halts and walks etc, tied him up, all was perfect, then popped him in the stable for a feed, and he was running around in circles, his blood completely up (he can see the mare in the field above the house) and he wasn't eating, generally full of adrenalin, he then did a rear by the door, so we quickly told him off and went in to halter him and he tried rearing as we opened the door, obviously attempting to jump the door, he got told off and made to go back , we haltered him, made him wait while the door was opened and walked him around did a couple more commands and back up to the field, where he was reunited with the mare.

Our immediate thought is arghhhhhhhhhhhh he was fine until he had a friend!! Shall we split them up again as was harmony before then.... but my 2nd thought is he needs to learn!

Whats your general thoughts?? And advice re stable... anti weave grill?


Thanks in advance
 
wee brat - hes done so well. tbh i would be inclined to leave them as they are, keepndoing what your doing, be consistent and im sure he'll.learn

youve done so well so far dont let it get you down! in the grand scale of things its just a wee blip :-)
 
wee brat - hes done so well. tbh i would be inclined to leave them as they are, keepndoing what your doing, be consistent and im sure he'll.learn

youve done so well so far dont let it get you down! in the grand scale of things its just a wee blip :-)

I know I know!!!! He was just a brat, but I also know he would have come out over the door:( Gert lummux he is too!! I knew we would have down times again, I did honestly, I say it every day to people, they still deflate you when you get one! I am inclined to say to carry on because whats the point of avoiding circumstances that will cause him to react, he needs to learn!

Sooooo what would you do with regards to the stable??:eek:
 
i think id just leave as is for the moment the anti weave grill wont stop him running abiut the stable u might need to.go back a step with that but hell soon realise his pal.is still.in the field whem he goes back x
 
He needs to learn that you will turn him back out with his friend. So start off by just taking him out, doing something very small (eg a quick groom) and then turn him back out. Slowly build up the time and the 'difficulty' of what you ask him to do. Take it slowly, he'll soon learn that he'll go back out again once he's finished his session.

Always end the session on a good note, even if it's just a nice controlled halt and then a nice 'walk on'. :)
 
Yep, once they have a pal they're a PITA. I would just keep doing the same as you did today, bring him out, into stable, bit of chaff/feed, brush, ignore silliness, take him back out. He will get used to the new routine and realise that he gets to go back to his new best friend. Then you can extend the periods of separation.
 
To his credit he was lovely when he was inhand, it was when i turned him loose in the stable, he would have definately attempted to come out over:eek:.... and he was a bit dangerous as my husband entered the stable, he tried to rear up over, but he didn't tolerate it, and gave him a lecture about manners lol... haltered him, then he was calm again?? Was no warning, he seemed so calm when being handled!....
 
keep doing what you're doing DD:) he'll soon learnt he routine as others have said, if you separate him and the mare it's just a lesson he'll have to learn at a later date, better to do it now while he's not so big (lol yes i know he's huge already but he'll get huger!)
 
I do love you lot so much! You have all picked up my angst although I have tried to be positive, thanks so much for the encouragment, it really does make you feel better.:D
 
my young mare does this if i have left her 24/7 for a few weeks ( ahh the days when we had good weather !!). After a couple of days of the new routine of coming in she soon gets bored of it.

Dont worry, he sounds a poppet and will get over it x
 
Do what someone has already suggested, just bring him out and fiddle around for a few minutes then pop him back and start to extend the time and the moving away from the mare,you don't really want to start fighting him now as he will only start going back to how he was. What's the old saying slowly,slowly catch the monkey:D:D:D:D:D
 
Waves at Katherine!!:D

Yeah, he was so much easier when he had no friends!! Billy no mates lol!!

I think we expected him to be so hard to get into a stable, have had 2 weeks of him just taking to it, then 2 days with a friend and suddenly he did this in the stable really took us by surprise!

So would you guys just do everything as normal ( he's not out field long anyway) and avoid stable until he realises he will see his friend again, or carry on as we are, 5 mins work, then a chill out in stable with a bowl of grub, but perhaps stay in with him., or leave door open, ??
 
So today we put rails up in his stable and made it more Freddie proof, and probably made it very spooky for him, brought him in did 5 mins work and put him in his stable ( didn't give a rats and ate his grub) mare calling to him from field etc etc..... go figure!!!!!!!:rolleyes:
 
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