ktj1891
Well-Known Member
So I have somehow got myself into going to my first ODE this weekend. I am starting to get really nervous, its only 80cm but for me this is big and its going to be a question for my boy.
I am not a very confident jumper and even though my lad is pretty honest I just always have it in my head he is going to stop. My main worry for the weekend is the xc- he's not great with ditches or water.
Anybody have any tips for me to help me calm myself before the XC. I have so many things running around in my head should I canter into the first fence or trot, should I trot around the whole course or canter.
I am trying to think in my head to just treat it as a schooling session.
I am also worried about his hind boots so far when I have taken him xc schooling I walk the ditches and he leaves a hind leg and pulls his boot down, obviously I don't want this to happen on course. If I tape his boots will this prevent this from happening?
I know I should just enjoy it and not stress or worry about what happens but it is hard to change your mindset when you are genuinely scared. My aim is just to get around everything. I don't know what I am looking for really but I felt I needed to get it out.
My friend will be there to help me so it will be nice to have some support from the ground.
Just to get an idea this is my lad and me on Tuesday jumping our first 80cm SJ course.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DqppVWutHlk
I am not a very confident jumper and even though my lad is pretty honest I just always have it in my head he is going to stop. My main worry for the weekend is the xc- he's not great with ditches or water.
Anybody have any tips for me to help me calm myself before the XC. I have so many things running around in my head should I canter into the first fence or trot, should I trot around the whole course or canter.
I am trying to think in my head to just treat it as a schooling session.
I am also worried about his hind boots so far when I have taken him xc schooling I walk the ditches and he leaves a hind leg and pulls his boot down, obviously I don't want this to happen on course. If I tape his boots will this prevent this from happening?
I know I should just enjoy it and not stress or worry about what happens but it is hard to change your mindset when you are genuinely scared. My aim is just to get around everything. I don't know what I am looking for really but I felt I needed to get it out.
My friend will be there to help me so it will be nice to have some support from the ground.
Just to get an idea this is my lad and me on Tuesday jumping our first 80cm SJ course.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DqppVWutHlk