Winters100
Well-Known Member
thankyou everyone - even for the harsh truths that hurt to read earlier in the day? i definitely don’t want my heart to lead and make a poor decision which is why im not 100% set on something unbroken and unseen is definitely not the ideal for me, it was just something i felt i might have to consider. i do want to add though, i’ve never had a “made” pony to show me the ropes so to speak, i’ve always had to take the rides i was offered so i can wholeheartedly say i do not feel i need an older horse as a first horse, however i am being realistic in why im wanting at least a native type for the lower maintenance (i know they’re still a big responsibility! just less than an ex racer) and something known for a more chill temperament, and yes i am aware that a lot connies can be quite quirky. should also add i will not be 100% alone, yes im an adult but whatever i end up with will be for my mum to be involved with too, who is clued up and of course i can trust - she’s just useless for the buying side!? but a bit of a geek for the research lol. after being initially disheartened by the responses earlier i just wanted to reply and say im definitely taking it on board, but with a pinch of salt because of course myself and the horsey people in my life know my ability and experience better than what can be taken from the limited info i’ve given on here. my horsey family members will definitely not allow me to bite off more than i can chew, especially whilst im living at home until i finish my masters and if i end up in hospital it’ll be my mum that has to do the mucking out? very long reply so apologies, but can anyone offer me a advice more specific than “don’t buy a youngster you plonker!” in terms of what to look out for etc and how to find what i want? there’s a few dealers that i know others have had good experiences with, not in ireland lol, but i’m also sceptical to buy from a private seller because at least with an actual dealer you have legal rights ie having to return and the good dealers value keeping a good name for their business
Bless you. No one thinks that you are a 'plonker' as you put it! I think it is just that some of us, who have been around the block, and made what have in some cases been expensive and heart breaking mistakes, would not like you to do the same.
I totally get what you say about having to take what rides you were offered, and never having a 'made' pony. The thing is though, that when you offer a horse to someone to ride, you usually have an idea that it is within their capabilities. With an unbroken youngster, particularly one that you buy without viewing, you have no idea how it will be. Maybe a nice easy horse who you can ride with a bit of help, but maybe not. And once you own the horse it is very different to a loan that you can walk away from if it is not fun.
I also really worry about how you will finance and have time for such a project as you say that you are still saving up. A youngster who needs to be handled and trained every day, come rain, shine or exams, and who may need extensive professional help will be expensive both in terms of time and money. And what about a sudden injury or illness - will you have funds available for vet care and possibly buying in help with rehab? Even simple things, such as paying a groom to handwalk a few times a day after injury, can add up to significant amounts.
Sorry if I am sounding negative, but my own experience of buying youngsters has been that it has cost much more to get them to the stage that I truly enjoy them, than buying a made pony who I can enjoy day 1, and also it is 50/50 whether you end up with something that is what you really want.