mcnaughty
Well-Known Member
Rosie - i am also not defending or protecting the "fox" but what i am saying is basically if you are not there for your children then things may happen - i really cannot comprehend a mother not being able to hear its 9 month old children - it just does not sit in any way shape or form with the way i have been brought up - or event expect mums to behave. I actually am very anti children - do not have them, do not want them, BUT i certainly do not want them to get hurt - this mums parenting skills certainly leave a lot to be desired - it may have been a fox attack or a dog or rat, it may have been a fire or one of the children choking - which ever it was 99.9% of parents would have know in an instance - ie they would have been in the same room, had a squawk box etc - at the end of the day these were 9 month old children - okay not at the most vunerable stage but pretty close - and to that end the parenting skills are questionalbe - and as i stated earlier had this been a high rise flat single mum the social would be in there now interveiwing, blaming and possibly taking into care.
Crikey - has this turned into a parenting witch hunt now... Parents are allowed to have lives too. I have two kids and never used a baby alarm. I would not use one at night because they are pointless noisy things that keep parents awake when we should be catching up on very infrequent sleep. If a baby were to choke - not sure what on in their cot - but if they were, you are pretty unlikely to hear that anyway on an alarm.
As for child stealing - do you actually know how rare that is?
Fact is, there are too many foxes now because their numbers are not being controlled properly. Everyone knew that once the fox population in the countryside reached a critical level they would spill into the towns and cities as there is a plentiful supply of food.
I was driving through Ruislip the other evening at 9pm and saw 3 adult foxes - all of them were quite happy to trot across the road in front of my moving car without a care in the world and certainly no fear. I have seen a domestic cat move faster when it is at risk of being run down!
As for leaving your house door or windows open - well, I think this is a no brainer surely in hot weather.