Alex01
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I have been sharing my 10 year old cob for just over three months. He has competed in unaffiliated dressage competitions and have come first in many of them (not sure at what level but not as low as intro). He is slow to get going but once he is moving can be very forward going and works hard. His owner has only recently started riding him again in the last month after a break and since she has been riding him I've noticed that he is much less willing to work for me and I'm not sure why this is or whether it is just coincidence.
I have an instructor and he is very forward in the lessons. However recently, when riding him on my own I have found him very sluggish and almost stubbornly dead to my leg. He breaks all paces to go back to walk and on occasion I have struggled to even get him into a working trot as he just switches off and refuses to do what I say.
When warming up I try loads of transitions, walk to trot, trot to walk, walk halt etc but sometimes I feel even this isn't making a difference with him. His owner gives him a good old smack if he isn't listening and my instructor has told me to give him a good hard hit if he is really taking the p*** but to be honest, this doesn't sit well with me and I am reluctant to do this as I think it is cruel and it doesn't even seem to make a difference anyway. I ride with a schooling whip and will give him a tap with it, however I'm starting to wonder if I do this too often and so my leg aids have lost all effect. I don't feel I can really speak to his owner about this, as she will just say he is fine with her and I worry that she will say that I'm not suitable for him. I do really like him and don't want to look for another horse as he has given me so much confidence since a bad fall and the arrangement I have with the owners is very good and I don't want this to change. I've only been sharing him for three months and so maybe I am putting too much pressure on myself.
In all honesty, I'd like to try ditching the whip and leaving it at the side of the school so that I can try to focus on leg aids alone, but not sure if this will work. Can anyone recommend anything I can do to get him more off my leg? I've heard someone say you should do 100 transitions every schooling session. I'm starting to get frustrated and don't know what to do!
I have an instructor and he is very forward in the lessons. However recently, when riding him on my own I have found him very sluggish and almost stubbornly dead to my leg. He breaks all paces to go back to walk and on occasion I have struggled to even get him into a working trot as he just switches off and refuses to do what I say.
When warming up I try loads of transitions, walk to trot, trot to walk, walk halt etc but sometimes I feel even this isn't making a difference with him. His owner gives him a good old smack if he isn't listening and my instructor has told me to give him a good hard hit if he is really taking the p*** but to be honest, this doesn't sit well with me and I am reluctant to do this as I think it is cruel and it doesn't even seem to make a difference anyway. I ride with a schooling whip and will give him a tap with it, however I'm starting to wonder if I do this too often and so my leg aids have lost all effect. I don't feel I can really speak to his owner about this, as she will just say he is fine with her and I worry that she will say that I'm not suitable for him. I do really like him and don't want to look for another horse as he has given me so much confidence since a bad fall and the arrangement I have with the owners is very good and I don't want this to change. I've only been sharing him for three months and so maybe I am putting too much pressure on myself.
In all honesty, I'd like to try ditching the whip and leaving it at the side of the school so that I can try to focus on leg aids alone, but not sure if this will work. Can anyone recommend anything I can do to get him more off my leg? I've heard someone say you should do 100 transitions every schooling session. I'm starting to get frustrated and don't know what to do!