GRRRR Stupid YO *Rant*

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Im soooooo annoyed, it's so unfair.

yesterday she txt me at 6.45am to say bring your camera up and we can take pics of the Horsebox as it's for sale. However I wasn't even going up, so i txt bck sayin that i would but i would only be up for half a day as i was meeting someone in the afternoon.

Anyway so i arrived and she barley said 2 words to me except for a very pissed of Hello, So i went to ask her OH what was wrong and aparently last week i had said that was going up and i would be there all day. I never said anything of the sort i said i wouldnt be up until thursday and my friend can vow for she was with me at the time.

So YO didnt talk to me all morning, I fetched in and turnout, mucked out all 9 horses and bathed the horse she was takin combined tranning today. Didnt get no thankyou or anythin. It made me feel really upset and angry becasue im not getting paid to do it, i come up every single day and do them and the one day i wasn't goin up so got really pissed off with me!

I ended up Rigning Vicky whos best friends with YO but i also help her out alot and she was like thats not on and was very angry with YO for this, and i asked her what i should do and soo she said just go home, I'll speak to her. so i went and told her OH that What vicky had said and he said, Can i come bck to yours? so i was like ye ok, so he wrote a note sayin he had a meetin to attend andwe both went to ours and we had cup of tea and let of steam!

Sure enough YO rang me (obviously Vicky had rang her) and she was like sorry bout today i was just pissed off and then added so i'll see you thursday?

Personally I dont care if she was pissed off there was no need to act like she did! I still didnt get any thankyou or anything?

What shall i do? I dont really want to fall out as i keep my horse up there, but Grrrrr it's just got me sooo annoyed
 
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I got a bit nervous at around the point where the OH asked if he could come back to yours!! Hehe. Sounds innocent, but confusing hehe.

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lol he's awesome! he wanted to come to mine so we could look at the photos i have taken off the last few events! He comes bck regualry!!!! he also wanted to get away from YO! I no it may sound wierd, but seriously it's completely innocent
 
Christ, howto make a situation more complicated....... how old are you if you dont mind me asking?

Why didnt you, yourself go and speak to YO about why she is/was pissed off?? without having to involve numerous others to try and sort it for you??
 
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Why didnt you, yourself go and speak to YO about why she is/was pissed off?? without having to involve numerous others to try and sort it for you??

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That's what I was going to ask
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She's rung you and discussed it now, so what's there to 'fall out' over? Yes, you were p*ssed off and so was she. People have days like that sometimes but don't take it personally. I'd just live and let live and get on with it
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Fair enough, so you are being paid in kind. Perhaps you ought to form a more formal agreement as it might generate more respect from the YO. Unfortunately some people think those that will work without a structured form of payment are numpties there to be taken advantage of!
 
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