bouncing_ball
Well-Known Member
I’m hoping for a fresh perspective on this as I’m really fed up! And my confidence is through the floor.
My horse hadn’t done much hacking when I got him 4 years ago. I slowly introduced him to hacking in wide open spaces (including alongside race horses training).
He was a brilliant hack (if a bit slow) for nearly 3 years. Happy to canter behind other horses galloping. Happy to hack solo in open spaces with racehorses in strings all around.
Suddenly changed late December 2023 (I think had hind gut ulcer issues at time, but has been fine for last 12 months).
He’s been unpredictable to hack on home open spaces since. Massively over reactive to other horses, tense and not going forward. Very upset if companions overtake him but barely moving. Stress & tantrums. I’ve done months of quiet walking in company, building back up to cantering. But doesn’t stick. He’s not very safe solo as freaks out sometimes if sees another horse.
Ok away from home. Ok at TREC / EGB.
We are both seasoned - BD / Working Equitation / low level Endurance, TREC etc. I’ve 40 BD medium points with past horses. And regularly taken my horses to racetrack to gallop etc. I’m in mid to late 40’s, he’s my 4th large warmblood.
I’m at my wits end, this IS my local hacking, and I want to happily canter my horse in local open spaces. (Hell he doesn’t like competing at dressage he kind of needs to be a nice hack instead).
I’ve tried a lot with my confidence, I’m okay on other horses, but now anticipating problems with mine & folding into foetal position scared to put my leg on when he’s tense, in anticipation of problems.
I’m on a decent dose of HRT which solved lots of other things but not this.
I’ve tried recommended rider physiologist. Said I have the tools.
I can do controlled breathing / singing / counting backwards. Flex horse, stop & give treats etc.
I’ve got kind patient friends to hack with but hasn’t got consistently better.
What I’ve actually done I think is reinforced my fear over last year.
I’m not sure if I’ve created horse’s issues with lack of clear leadership or if he’s fundamentally undermined my confidence. Or if he’s scared. He’s ok in hand.
He’s fine meeting something scary on road / in woods, I remember how to ride, he doesn’t freak & we deal with it.
There’s nothing physically or digestively wrong with my horse. He’s fine on roads / school / woods / away from home / travelling in lorry.
He was happy as Larry in this environment for a number of years. Now he isn’t. The fact he was happy feels like it should be fixable? I get some horses never solo hack / relax in busy open spaces / behave sensibly on open grass etc. But if he used to, it should be possible?
Any suggestions.
I haven’t had someone else ride him, which would be logical. I haven’t found right person / right other rider to accompany.
My horse hadn’t done much hacking when I got him 4 years ago. I slowly introduced him to hacking in wide open spaces (including alongside race horses training).
He was a brilliant hack (if a bit slow) for nearly 3 years. Happy to canter behind other horses galloping. Happy to hack solo in open spaces with racehorses in strings all around.
Suddenly changed late December 2023 (I think had hind gut ulcer issues at time, but has been fine for last 12 months).
He’s been unpredictable to hack on home open spaces since. Massively over reactive to other horses, tense and not going forward. Very upset if companions overtake him but barely moving. Stress & tantrums. I’ve done months of quiet walking in company, building back up to cantering. But doesn’t stick. He’s not very safe solo as freaks out sometimes if sees another horse.
Ok away from home. Ok at TREC / EGB.
We are both seasoned - BD / Working Equitation / low level Endurance, TREC etc. I’ve 40 BD medium points with past horses. And regularly taken my horses to racetrack to gallop etc. I’m in mid to late 40’s, he’s my 4th large warmblood.
I’m at my wits end, this IS my local hacking, and I want to happily canter my horse in local open spaces. (Hell he doesn’t like competing at dressage he kind of needs to be a nice hack instead).
I’ve tried a lot with my confidence, I’m okay on other horses, but now anticipating problems with mine & folding into foetal position scared to put my leg on when he’s tense, in anticipation of problems.
I’m on a decent dose of HRT which solved lots of other things but not this.
I’ve tried recommended rider physiologist. Said I have the tools.
I can do controlled breathing / singing / counting backwards. Flex horse, stop & give treats etc.
I’ve got kind patient friends to hack with but hasn’t got consistently better.
What I’ve actually done I think is reinforced my fear over last year.
I’m not sure if I’ve created horse’s issues with lack of clear leadership or if he’s fundamentally undermined my confidence. Or if he’s scared. He’s ok in hand.
He’s fine meeting something scary on road / in woods, I remember how to ride, he doesn’t freak & we deal with it.
There’s nothing physically or digestively wrong with my horse. He’s fine on roads / school / woods / away from home / travelling in lorry.
He was happy as Larry in this environment for a number of years. Now he isn’t. The fact he was happy feels like it should be fixable? I get some horses never solo hack / relax in busy open spaces / behave sensibly on open grass etc. But if he used to, it should be possible?
Any suggestions.
I haven’t had someone else ride him, which would be logical. I haven’t found right person / right other rider to accompany.