horseybohemian
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I meant to refer to this:
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I go to Hartpury at the moment and I love the atmosphere of the equine yard, I do A Levels at the moment so can't say much about the lifestyle but it is indeed very bitchy but what do you expect?
You've got some very wealthy girls with top class horses, mixed with girls who've produced their own horses through hard work and girls who have never ridden outside of a riding school. There is really quite a mix of characters! and its the horseworld...
Your best bet is to set yourself up well so you CAN'T be the cause of bullying, i.e. dress smartly, be modest and try to get involved in what you can!
(I'm hoping to sign up for equine business too here when I'm done and if I make the grade!)
This is not a fabulous attitude at all - it is very sad indeed. To expect a place to be bitchy, is simply to condone and collude with bullies. To set yourself up so you can't be bullied shows you are relieved when another is victimised. All workplaces and educational establishments should be free from all forms of bullying. There are laws against it and the college must have a policy of dealing with bullying and intimidation. The policy has failed.
I am shocked by what I have read - I have visited Hartpury and was hoping my son might apply, but he chose a different route.
From this thread one can only assume that the college clearly has a reputation for and a long standing issue with bullying that has not been addressed. This is a major failing on their part.
Nobody should ever accept that bullying is OK or part of an industry, you do a disservice to all sections of the equine industry to suggest this is in any way acceptable.
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I go to Hartpury at the moment and I love the atmosphere of the equine yard, I do A Levels at the moment so can't say much about the lifestyle but it is indeed very bitchy but what do you expect?
You've got some very wealthy girls with top class horses, mixed with girls who've produced their own horses through hard work and girls who have never ridden outside of a riding school. There is really quite a mix of characters! and its the horseworld...
Your best bet is to set yourself up well so you CAN'T be the cause of bullying, i.e. dress smartly, be modest and try to get involved in what you can!
(I'm hoping to sign up for equine business too here when I'm done and if I make the grade!)
This is not a fabulous attitude at all - it is very sad indeed. To expect a place to be bitchy, is simply to condone and collude with bullies. To set yourself up so you can't be bullied shows you are relieved when another is victimised. All workplaces and educational establishments should be free from all forms of bullying. There are laws against it and the college must have a policy of dealing with bullying and intimidation. The policy has failed.
I am shocked by what I have read - I have visited Hartpury and was hoping my son might apply, but he chose a different route.
From this thread one can only assume that the college clearly has a reputation for and a long standing issue with bullying that has not been addressed. This is a major failing on their part.
Nobody should ever accept that bullying is OK or part of an industry, you do a disservice to all sections of the equine industry to suggest this is in any way acceptable.