Have to decide when to put my pony to sleep :(

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My poor little Welsh sec a pony was diagnosed with bone cancer a few months ago. I have had her since I was five, so ten years now. She is 26 and although she can no longer be ridden, she was living a happy life going out for walks everyday. However over the last few days I have noticed she has become very thin, although I'm feeding her what I always have, giving her extra hay and more grazing time. She is also finding it hard to get around now, having to walk very slowly. She is now completely blind in one eye which is no help to her.
She was very happily regardless of all of this, but now I can tell she is different. The vet told me at the time to call when i thought it was time, and as much as I hate it, I think it might be. It would be selfish of me to keep her alive when I know she is in a lot of pain.
I just wanted to see what others think before I do anything :'(
 
LucyAmelia said:
My poor little Welsh sec a pony was diagnosed with bone cancer a few months ago. I have had her since I was five, so ten years now. She is 26 and although she can no longer be ridden, she was living a happy life going out for walks everyday. However over the last few days I have noticed she has become very thin, although I'm feeding her what I always have, giving her extra hay and more grazing time. She is also finding it hard to get around now, having to walk very slowly. She is now completely blind in one eye which is no help to her.
She was very happily regardless of all of this, but now I can tell she is different. The vet told me at the time to call when i thought it was time, and as much as I hate it, I think it might be. It would be selfish of me to keep her alive when I know she is in a lot of pain.
I just wanted to see what others think before I do anything :'(
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Only you will know and it sounds like you do to be honest. The best decisions in life are often the hardest, but at least in making this decision, you are doing the best for your girl.

God bless her and I wish you the best...it will be a horrible time for you, but it is a gracious final act of love that you can give her after everything she has given you over the years.

Hugs x
 
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Only you will know and it sounds like you do to be honest. The best decisions in life are often the hardest, but at least in making this decision, you are doing the best for your girl.

God bless her and I wish you the best...it will be a horrible time for you, but it is a gracious final act of love that you can give her after everything she has given you over the years.

Hugs x
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Yes she has been so perfect to me and all those kiddies i made her take for rides! Thank you so much x
 
You poor thing. Its a very difficult decision to make, but from what you say its the right decision. Keep strong and take comfort in knowing you have prevented her from suffering x
 
HaffiesRock said:
You poor thing. Its a very difficult decision to make, but from what you say its the right decision. Keep strong and take comfort in knowing you have prevented her from suffering x
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Thanks for support, the thing is I know she cannot recover and she is not happy anymore, just stands at the back of her box poor girly, Its not fair on her I dont want her to suffer, she has been so good to be, I need to be there for her now x
 
I really feel for you, what a tragic time. :(

I think you know the answer really and maybe just want it confirming. My lovely dog got cancer and my daughter and I agreed that at the first sign of pain, we'd let her go. It was very hard to do as right till the end she could still run round and enjoy herself. I don't regret it though, it was the kindest bravest thing we could do for her.

Sooner rather than later is kindest I think. Hugs to you, be strong for your pony. xxxxx
 
FionaM12 said:
I really feel for you, what a tragic time. :(

I think you know the answer really and maybe just want it confirming. My lovely dog got cancer and my daughter and I agreed that at the first sign of pain, we'd let her go. It was very hard to do as right till the end she could still run round and enjoy herself. I don't regret it though, it was the kindest bravest thing we could do for her.

Sooner rather than later is kindest I think. Hugs to you, be strong for your pony. xxxxx
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I wanted to know if others would do the same, sorry about your dog at least she is peaceful now, I know i need to do the same , will ring the vets tomorrow cannot put it off any longer, thank you for support xxx
 
It's lovely to hear someone who has given her pony a true lifelong home and not passed her on when things get difficult, it sounds like your doing the right thing. 26 is a good old age. As one passes one is born, it's part of life and you will always have the wonderful memories.
It's a difficult decision to call, stay strong xx
 
I'm really sorry to hear that.

As others have said, you know when the time is right - and better a week too soon than a day too late.

She sounds a lovely pony indeed and is very lucky to have an owner like you, who's thinking of her best interests. Hugs. xx
 
funkyfilly018 said:
It's lovely to hear someone who has given her pony a true lifelong home and not passed her on when things get difficult, it sounds like your doing the right thing. 26 is a good old age. As one passes one is born, it's part of life and you will always have the wonderful memories.
It's a difficult decision to call, stay strong xx
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I refused to sell her when i became too big, i brought up my little sister and taught her to ride instead and took her out for a nice walk everyday. I have my 4year old girl now to break in :) Will miss my cheeky baby so much though xx
 
It's always a hard decision to make but I'm sure you will have heard the saying; 'Better a week too early than a day too late'.
I think that she is beginning to tell you that it is time now. Bone cancer can be a very painful condition, as you say it wouldn't be fair on her to put her through that, knowing that there is no chance of a cure.
It's the last thing a caring owner can do for a beloved companion.
Thinking of you.
 
Nothing much to say but stay strong. She sounds as if she had a lovely life. You could keep some of her tail to make a braclet or similar.
Thinking of you xx
 
What a lucky pony to be so loved.

I would advise discussing it with your vet, they will help you plan the best when, where and way to go about things. Pick a nice quiet time , write your questions down and ask the office to get the vet to contact you. If the vet knows what they are about to discuss they will be able to lead you through the arrangements.

Take care xx
 
So sorry, what a lucky pony to have you looking out for her. You have my utmost sympathies; my boy was diagnosed with leukaemia on a Tuesday and PTS on the weds, I was lucky in a way that I didn't have much time to organise or think things through over and over. Its awful saying goodbye, but its equally comforting knowing you've gone above and beyond so they don't suffer. Massive hugs x x
 
nemlin said:
So sorry, what a lucky pony to have you looking out for her. You have my utmost sympathies; my boy was diagnosed with leukaemia on a Tuesday and PTS on the weds, I was lucky in a way that I didn't have much time to organise or think things through over and over. Its awful saying goodbye, but its equally comforting knowing you've gone above and beyond so they don't suffer. Massive hugs x x
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Thankyou so much! very sorry for the loss of your boy xx
 
Big hugs, I have had two of mine put to sleep and whilst it is one of the hardest decisions to make, it is one of kindness. You have given her a wonderful, happy life and she will know that. xxx
 
My heart goes out to you, it is terrible deciding when to say goodbye, take comfort in you are doing what is best for your much loved pony. Big hugs xxxx
 
My decision was made for me with both of mine. I took one look at Carrie and knew she was asking to go and Dorey dropped dead in her stable after I realised I was losing her.

Your vet should be amazing, if they're anything like mine have been. They sorted out the disposal and all the technicalities whilst I sobbed on the phone.

Do not envy you at all, but all the hugs in the world xx
 
So sorry for you at this time. You will do what is right for her, because you know her so well, and she is telling you she is feeling very poorly. Sadly, you also know she is unlikely to get better. Call the vet as soon as you feel able to, and talk it through with her/him. Better a week too early . . . Courage and strength to you, and lots of love and hugs as well for you and pony. xxx
 
nemlin said:
So sorry, what a lucky pony to have you looking out for her. You have my utmost sympathies; my boy was diagnosed with leukaemia on a Tuesday and PTS on the weds, I was lucky in a way that I didn't have much time to organise or think things through over and over. Its awful saying goodbye, but its equally comforting knowing you've gone above and beyond so they don't suffer. Massive hugs x x
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so sorry nemlin (I lost my mare before Christmas) we also had a livery PTS in sept due to leukemia healing vibes sent.
 
Sending you hugs lovely, I think you know in your heart of hearts what you have to do. Now is better than later, you don't want to see her suffering more and more. Be strong for her, sending you (((hugs))) x
 
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