fburton
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No worries, I did assume it was tongue in cheek!
Though I do think there is a serious point there.
that book does exist tho it is a bit cheaper than £60 and is by Jo Knowles.
FBurton;
Good question you asked earlier. I don't know what's right or wrong. Whatever makes them solid citizens. But they do need their time being babies. Personally I don't spend time desensitising and yet I've managed to raise unspooky horses that trust what I ask of them. I raise jumpers so don't want mine walking over tarps. Yet they are unconcerned by flappy bags. Most of the time they can be found trying to stuff their heads in looking for goodies.
I have a client which sends us unhandled younsters to start. Once going they are no different. Obviously we take our time. As foals you can go into a field with mine pick up feet and clean and dress a cut with no issues. It doesn't take oddles of time to handle them efficiently and learn what is expected of them. Headcollars to me are learn how to have them on and off. Not how to wear it. Do they go through periods in which they pretend you've taught them nothing? Why sure. But we don't panic and start going crazy on them. They just try it on now and again to see if they can get away with it.
Problems are people that want to have the perfect behaved foal and overdo the process. They will be fine if you keep it simple and let them be babies most of the time. We all have that one foal that makes us realise these facts. I know I did.
I think that I need to relax when we talk about methods. My only problem has been people that want to use a method with no feeling of horses in general and make a mess of it and so then I say, yup another messed up horse. When that's not fair. It's just who is applying what to what. The advantage of working with so many horses over a long period of time is that you never say never and you keep learning.
My first 2 foals read the "how to be a good baby" book. I thought I was a genuis. Then Abba came along. She pushed boundries from day one. She was so friendly and so outgoing and I was over the moon with my dream filly that I waited for since age 7. Well talk about almost making a complete disaster of her. Thankfully I had a husband that can deal with these things. I decided for her and me it was probably best I left her handling to him. She is 7 now and quite chilled and well mannered but I know I messed up some things and I'm not proud. After her I handled foals matter of fact. This didn't mean I couldn't love them and have moments of gushing loony. It just meant boundries had to be followed. It got much easier after that.
Most people are afraid to talk of their failings. To me it just means I have the capacity to learn. Do what's best for the horse. It really is as simple as that.
Terri