Perfect_Pirouette
Well-Known Member
....Decides to take off with you?!
I have been riding this dressage mare for a couple of weeks now and after reservations to start with as she is only 6 and has VERY big movements that I wasn't sure whether I would be able to sit to etc, however I have been having a brilliant time with her and am really enjoying myself- not to mention gaining valuable experience with an amazing horse- a type of horse that I would NEVER be able to afford to buy- ever probably
Anyway, all was going well until the last time I rode her which was Saturday. She was on her toes a bit and came off the lorry like a bat out of hell, was snorting, really fresh etc and I thought 'uh oh' anyway, got on her and she was fine- brilliant in fact. I got some really nice work out of her and then I asked her for some shoulder in down the long side and I *think* it may have been my fault as I may have put my outside leg back and I think she may have thought I was asking for canter as she kind of got her knickers in a twist and her legs in a tangle and did some leaping about on the spot and then put in a buck, but to be honest it didnt really bother me.
Then I let her walk around for a bit on a long rein as it was hot and she was hot and had worked hard. Asked her to go back up into trot again a few mintutes later and she had totally changed- she was so strong I couldn't hold her and the faster she went the more tense I got and that made it even worse, I tried sitting back and half halting but it didn't work. I brought her down to walk and then, again asked her to go back up into trot and she shot off at such a fast trot, getting faster and faster and the more tense I got the more I think my leg clamped and it's an indoor school and the corners are quite tight and I was worried we were going to crash into the boards. Blah I don't know, I don't know what happened but she kept doing it and by the end I was getting really worked up and we'd been there ages so the owner said we had to go anyway. Her owner said she was just taking the piss because she was hot and tired and SHE'D decided (the mare) that she'd had enough and was testing me.
I don't know, I just couldn't relax whilst it was happening, she was really strong and the bloody bit had no breaks and as I said the faster she went the more tense I got and then my lower leg clamped and that made her worse.
I really dont want to give up on her because she is gorgeous and up until the other night didnt put a foot wrong! I'm riding her again tomorrow night and am just wondering if anyone has any tips/advice on what to do/ways to slow her down if this happens again. The trouble with me is, I know all the 'relax, slow your rising, think slow, circle etc etc' stuff but it's fine someone bloody saying that (which is what owner was saying when it was happening) it's different when you're the one up there with virtually no control, getting out of control.
No nasty comments please, i'm only looking for some constructive advice if anyone has any. I know getting tense is the worse thing you can do and so I want to try and overcome it. I wouldn't give a c r a p if it was G taking off with me, I really wouldn't, i'm so confident on him, but I don't know this horse very well and she's a lot bigger, it's different being able to keep a 15hh together compared to a 16.3!
I have been riding this dressage mare for a couple of weeks now and after reservations to start with as she is only 6 and has VERY big movements that I wasn't sure whether I would be able to sit to etc, however I have been having a brilliant time with her and am really enjoying myself- not to mention gaining valuable experience with an amazing horse- a type of horse that I would NEVER be able to afford to buy- ever probably
Anyway, all was going well until the last time I rode her which was Saturday. She was on her toes a bit and came off the lorry like a bat out of hell, was snorting, really fresh etc and I thought 'uh oh' anyway, got on her and she was fine- brilliant in fact. I got some really nice work out of her and then I asked her for some shoulder in down the long side and I *think* it may have been my fault as I may have put my outside leg back and I think she may have thought I was asking for canter as she kind of got her knickers in a twist and her legs in a tangle and did some leaping about on the spot and then put in a buck, but to be honest it didnt really bother me.
Then I let her walk around for a bit on a long rein as it was hot and she was hot and had worked hard. Asked her to go back up into trot again a few mintutes later and she had totally changed- she was so strong I couldn't hold her and the faster she went the more tense I got and that made it even worse, I tried sitting back and half halting but it didn't work. I brought her down to walk and then, again asked her to go back up into trot and she shot off at such a fast trot, getting faster and faster and the more tense I got the more I think my leg clamped and it's an indoor school and the corners are quite tight and I was worried we were going to crash into the boards. Blah I don't know, I don't know what happened but she kept doing it and by the end I was getting really worked up and we'd been there ages so the owner said we had to go anyway. Her owner said she was just taking the piss because she was hot and tired and SHE'D decided (the mare) that she'd had enough and was testing me.
I don't know, I just couldn't relax whilst it was happening, she was really strong and the bloody bit had no breaks and as I said the faster she went the more tense I got and then my lower leg clamped and that made her worse.
I really dont want to give up on her because she is gorgeous and up until the other night didnt put a foot wrong! I'm riding her again tomorrow night and am just wondering if anyone has any tips/advice on what to do/ways to slow her down if this happens again. The trouble with me is, I know all the 'relax, slow your rising, think slow, circle etc etc' stuff but it's fine someone bloody saying that (which is what owner was saying when it was happening) it's different when you're the one up there with virtually no control, getting out of control.
No nasty comments please, i'm only looking for some constructive advice if anyone has any. I know getting tense is the worse thing you can do and so I want to try and overcome it. I wouldn't give a c r a p if it was G taking off with me, I really wouldn't, i'm so confident on him, but I don't know this horse very well and she's a lot bigger, it's different being able to keep a 15hh together compared to a 16.3!