Beatrice5
Well-Known Member
My mare up until this evening has never napped, bucked, planted, bitten and spun around in fact I would go so far as to say she woundn't have even known how to.....Until tonight.
I had my first lesson in 13 years last Saturnday so decided as I am home alone with the kids whilst the slept I would spend half an hour walking quietly around the field practising my position, relaxing my spine, having a gentle contact ( I normally have no contact) and a little flexion and leg yielding. All very gentle suppling and no demanding or so I thought.
I turned them all out at 4pm to give them a chance to graze for a few hours before as they are in, in the daytime. Then put filly and gelding into field next door. Still in sight so nothing to stress about.
Tacked mare up climbed on and immeditely resistant and silly. If we went away from others plant, gentle nudge threatened to rear, shaking head etc etc. So I asked for a few steps back then gentle forwards again. We had a few walking around with a contact moments but the whole time she appeared to be elsewhere in her head and not with me at all. Itermittent Cow phases . I kept cool, I stayed quiet but firm. In the end she felt like we were getting nowhere so I quietly lunged her for 5 mins each side walk and trot. Then tried again but still we were resistant.
To Hack she is PERFECT, forwards, light, responsive and easy. In my lesson at the local yard in their school she was sweet and tried hard. So why when at home in the field is she so resistant and how to overcome this as I can't always school at the livery yard due to children being at home etc.
Advice greatly appreciated.
I had my first lesson in 13 years last Saturnday so decided as I am home alone with the kids whilst the slept I would spend half an hour walking quietly around the field practising my position, relaxing my spine, having a gentle contact ( I normally have no contact) and a little flexion and leg yielding. All very gentle suppling and no demanding or so I thought.
I turned them all out at 4pm to give them a chance to graze for a few hours before as they are in, in the daytime. Then put filly and gelding into field next door. Still in sight so nothing to stress about.
Tacked mare up climbed on and immeditely resistant and silly. If we went away from others plant, gentle nudge threatened to rear, shaking head etc etc. So I asked for a few steps back then gentle forwards again. We had a few walking around with a contact moments but the whole time she appeared to be elsewhere in her head and not with me at all. Itermittent Cow phases . I kept cool, I stayed quiet but firm. In the end she felt like we were getting nowhere so I quietly lunged her for 5 mins each side walk and trot. Then tried again but still we were resistant.
To Hack she is PERFECT, forwards, light, responsive and easy. In my lesson at the local yard in their school she was sweet and tried hard. So why when at home in the field is she so resistant and how to overcome this as I can't always school at the livery yard due to children being at home etc.
Advice greatly appreciated.