Help - so torn what to do??

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sound like there are a few man haters on this thread? xx

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If that is aimed at me - then you couldnt' be further from the truth. I just thought that marriage - or having long term partners etc - meant 'sharing', 'supporting' etc. And in this particular situation if I were watching my partner go through the anguish that OP is going through - then I would do everything in my power to help them. Isn't that what love is all about??

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I agree!

My and boyf haven't been together too long but he's already said that if things progress then he realises that he'll be picking up the bills for Ty
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I did try not to grin too broadly.....ahem....and I did ask if he fancied getting himself a nice ISH.....

Seriously though, if you're in a stable relationship then maybe there are ways that he could help you out for a while? Although I suppose it shouldn't be taken for granted - after all the horses are our hobbies, not theirs. x
 
No wasnt aimed at anyone really - so no need to get you knickers in a twist! :-) was said in humor than anything!!

It wasnt suppossed to be insulting -was just a passing comment.

Yes you do need to be supportive etc but a horse is a luxury ....... and a big one at that!!

Dont get me wrong tho - if the debt that is causing trouble was the OH fault too - then he needs to be helping out with that DEFO - maybe not with the horse but DEFO the debt and then maybe horse troubles would be non existant!

I love men - got a right good one and have had good ones in the past and I am sure if I ever had to get another - there will be some nice ones about !! Cant beat a bloke with a fat wallet !! HA HA
 
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You post some really nice things Park Ranger !! Bless you

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Really? God, need to work on that. i have a reputation to protect
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Could I ask tho ..... (and this is a question not a dig )

would you give up your horse if your OH had a financial problem and they were really down about it and knowing you could solve all your problems together if you sold you horse?

would it work the other way ???

I bet not many people would - which in a way is bad too!! (I dont think I would - but I know my OH would only expect it if it was a real bad unfortunate debt that wasnt his fault and then I would!)
 
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would you give up your horse if your OH had a financial problem and they were really down about it and knowing you could solve all your problems together if you sold you horse?

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Of course not, but I wouldn't sell my car either
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Is the car bit relevant to what happend about the accident/debt? I dont understand about the car comment ?

Well lucky for me I dont have a car - I have a motorbike!! Ha Ha

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Been of work today
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was actually in court RE the mentioned car accident...still none the wiser as was adjourned again lol...

Still dont know what to do
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Half want to keep her least until the end of summer as ive paid for BSJA and BD now but do realise being able to afford to live comes into it...seriously leaning towards loaning her to Finn for a while...
 
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