Countrychic
Well-Known Member
Mine with spavin is a total tw*t in the stable, if you have been asked to do something that you hate by people for years perhaps you wouldn't be pleased to see them either? You can say he only does it then or when I do this but the bottom line is you have asked on here because you feel you have tried everything and the horse is still very unhappy. I can't imagine you get much from riding something so unwilling and it sounds like he gets nothing from it so if he were mine I'd be calling it a day. I said it would be an unpopular answer but felt I had to post as I feel the horse is telling you he does not want to be ridden. It has been a continual problem and the fact that he "forgets" at competitions to me again indicates pain.
I could continue with my well bred show jumping gelding, by the sounds of things he was much easier than your boy to ride( but worse in the box where he has drawn blood on numerous occasions) but even if he was only bad 50% of the time I wouldn't have continued. His behaviour didn't scare me in the least and I loved competing him he was a true dc horse but he is a horse first and when riding became against his wishes we stopped and I haven't regretted it for a second.
I could continue with my well bred show jumping gelding, by the sounds of things he was much easier than your boy to ride( but worse in the box where he has drawn blood on numerous occasions) but even if he was only bad 50% of the time I wouldn't have continued. His behaviour didn't scare me in the least and I loved competing him he was a true dc horse but he is a horse first and when riding became against his wishes we stopped and I haven't regretted it for a second.