ktj1891
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When I got my boy three years ago I got told he was headshy but never really noticed it. Now three years down the line, its a task to brush his face, poll, cut a bridle path and pull his mane.
He's not bad with a soft brush and will let me brush him all over his face with this although still not keen on his poll or ears. However, now its winter and he cakes his face and mane in mud this is when he is at his worst as I have to brush him firmer and use a metal blade or plastic curry comb. I have tried all sorts of approaches being really patient and taking my time to get the job done, treating him and being stern with him and telling him to stop being stupid. Today, he just flipped soon as I started brushing him by his poll area (covered in mud) and he proceeded to turn himself inside out, this resulted in me getting really frustrated and taking it out on him which I feel awful about
and eventually twitching him.
To cut his bridle path I do try the approach of being patient I normally have to open and close scissors for him to get used to the noise. Then I cut the hair which he flips out about again so have to do it in baby steps or if I don't have the patience I twitch him.
To brush his face with curry comb just seems impossible these days he will screw his head almost all the way around, lift it high so I can't reach or run through me to stop me doing it. So again if really not in the mood I twitch. He is better with the metal comb and he varies between tolerating it for so long and then having a hissy again. I have to literally brush him so gently for him to 'allow' it which does not help when trying to remove chunks of mud!
To pull his mane I try and do little and often and treat and pat him lots, he pulls away as I back comb and twists his neck, so I wait for him to relax himself before I pull it out which seems to help.
He also has to be sedated to clip
I do think he is mainly very sensitive and a bit head shy but I just don't know what to do to improve this situation as to me, from brushing other horses really rough that just dont give a ****, he seems to be making an awful big deal and getting really upset over nothing?
Can anyone advise any tips or advice so I can brush him in a less stressful manner. I feel horrendous after loosing it with him and I just want him to chill and let me brush him to get the mud off!
He's not bad with a soft brush and will let me brush him all over his face with this although still not keen on his poll or ears. However, now its winter and he cakes his face and mane in mud this is when he is at his worst as I have to brush him firmer and use a metal blade or plastic curry comb. I have tried all sorts of approaches being really patient and taking my time to get the job done, treating him and being stern with him and telling him to stop being stupid. Today, he just flipped soon as I started brushing him by his poll area (covered in mud) and he proceeded to turn himself inside out, this resulted in me getting really frustrated and taking it out on him which I feel awful about
To cut his bridle path I do try the approach of being patient I normally have to open and close scissors for him to get used to the noise. Then I cut the hair which he flips out about again so have to do it in baby steps or if I don't have the patience I twitch him.
To brush his face with curry comb just seems impossible these days he will screw his head almost all the way around, lift it high so I can't reach or run through me to stop me doing it. So again if really not in the mood I twitch. He is better with the metal comb and he varies between tolerating it for so long and then having a hissy again. I have to literally brush him so gently for him to 'allow' it which does not help when trying to remove chunks of mud!
To pull his mane I try and do little and often and treat and pat him lots, he pulls away as I back comb and twists his neck, so I wait for him to relax himself before I pull it out which seems to help.
He also has to be sedated to clip
I do think he is mainly very sensitive and a bit head shy but I just don't know what to do to improve this situation as to me, from brushing other horses really rough that just dont give a ****, he seems to be making an awful big deal and getting really upset over nothing?
Can anyone advise any tips or advice so I can brush him in a less stressful manner. I feel horrendous after loosing it with him and I just want him to chill and let me brush him to get the mud off!