marmalade76
Well-Known Member
Jolly well learn not to let go of him in the first place!
From what you wrote, it sounds like you just slop along not paying attention and he takes advantage. Learn to keep your mind on the job and look for the telltale signs he's going to have a go.
Everyone falls off once in a while but you seem to be making a habit of it and to always lose him is abysmal, shows you're learning nothing.
Sorry to be harsh but this should be a wake up call, next time, horse could be dead under a truck or worse, have badly injured or killed a person. You've been lucky so far but it won't last if you don't start thinking and reacting quicker. Think about learning emergency stops when you started driving, that's how quick your reactions need to be so get in the school and start getting transistions sharp and clear, no delayed reactions and no taking your mind off the job. Be sharp. When you dismount as normal, make a habit of being sharp and holding tight to those reins so that it's a natural reaction and do it from both sides too, you won't always fall off the same side! I used to be awful for coming off over a shoulder, landed on some glass once, that was painful so you soon learn to get your reactions quicker to avoid things like that.
I agree with this, I had a very sharp and spooky horse a few years ago who was very light weight and narrow with no neck or shoulder. He was an expert at stopping dead, spinning round and trying to take off in the opposite direction without any warning. Bombproofing him would not have made a difference as I think he spooked to amuse himself. I only fell off this horse three times in three years of ownership, twice out hunting (I allowed myself to get too forward over fences and was tipped off over the shoulder on landing) and once when SJing, he never got me off out hacking.
You need to keep your weight right down in your heels, keep your upper body upright and be ready to snatch up the reins in an instant. Go back to basics, have some lunge lessons to improve your postion and balance and try not to fall off in the first place!