Deltic Blue
Well-Known Member
I have a bit of a what would you do situation for you.
I've had my mare about 6 months now, she's 5 years old, fairly opinionated, easily distracted and can be quite a stress head!
When I tried her back in summer, in an outdoor school, she was very relaxed, not stressy at all, which is why I bought her as I didn't want anything that young ideally.
Now the school at my yard is an indoor, we have no other options, just the indoor. And I go in there about 3 days a week in the winter. I thought at the beginning she was just unsettled because of the move and being so young. But 6 months down the line, she is no different, and it's becoming increasingly harder to get her to settle and school nicely in there. She will rush, she gets very strong and leans on my hands because of the rushing. She head shakes relentlessly when I let her have her head, which she didn't really do much when I tried her, just the odd few tired/babyish head shakes, and she won't relax and stretch when we're done, she just carries on marching round the school.
I took her out last weekend to a yard up the road with an outdoor school, as I've just recently got transport so I wanted to get her out and about. I wasn't expecting much as she is so easily distracted and this yard has their fields on one side of the school, so the horses are quite close. After a couple of excited bucks at the beginning (which she doesn't normally do at home!) she settled and worked the best I've had from her in months!!
There was no rushing, no bouncing on the spot, no threats to rear, the head shaking only came about when she was cooling down, and only 1 or 2 shakes. She relaxed and stretched her neck down and just calmly ambled round the school. She was just a nice pleasant horse, back to the behaviour she showed when I initially tried her.
Now is my predicament, as I really like my current yard! Everything else works so well for her. She can live out in winter, which she prefers as she is quite stressy in the stable, also it works nicely for me as it means I only go up once a day. The hacking is very good, and I generally like it as a yard and I'm settled. However she isn't!
If I moved, I would have to accept that she'll have to come in again overnight in winter, which I think she would settle down into once in a routine and as long as she could see others I can image she'd settle nicely.
What would you do if you were in my situation? Carry on trying to settle her in the indoor even though it's been 6 months and no real progress, or look at moving to a yard with an outdoor school? And then I can actually crack on and continue with her education, rather than fight her every ride.
I've had my mare about 6 months now, she's 5 years old, fairly opinionated, easily distracted and can be quite a stress head!
When I tried her back in summer, in an outdoor school, she was very relaxed, not stressy at all, which is why I bought her as I didn't want anything that young ideally.
Now the school at my yard is an indoor, we have no other options, just the indoor. And I go in there about 3 days a week in the winter. I thought at the beginning she was just unsettled because of the move and being so young. But 6 months down the line, she is no different, and it's becoming increasingly harder to get her to settle and school nicely in there. She will rush, she gets very strong and leans on my hands because of the rushing. She head shakes relentlessly when I let her have her head, which she didn't really do much when I tried her, just the odd few tired/babyish head shakes, and she won't relax and stretch when we're done, she just carries on marching round the school.
I took her out last weekend to a yard up the road with an outdoor school, as I've just recently got transport so I wanted to get her out and about. I wasn't expecting much as she is so easily distracted and this yard has their fields on one side of the school, so the horses are quite close. After a couple of excited bucks at the beginning (which she doesn't normally do at home!) she settled and worked the best I've had from her in months!!
There was no rushing, no bouncing on the spot, no threats to rear, the head shaking only came about when she was cooling down, and only 1 or 2 shakes. She relaxed and stretched her neck down and just calmly ambled round the school. She was just a nice pleasant horse, back to the behaviour she showed when I initially tried her.
Now is my predicament, as I really like my current yard! Everything else works so well for her. She can live out in winter, which she prefers as she is quite stressy in the stable, also it works nicely for me as it means I only go up once a day. The hacking is very good, and I generally like it as a yard and I'm settled. However she isn't!
If I moved, I would have to accept that she'll have to come in again overnight in winter, which I think she would settle down into once in a routine and as long as she could see others I can image she'd settle nicely.
What would you do if you were in my situation? Carry on trying to settle her in the indoor even though it's been 6 months and no real progress, or look at moving to a yard with an outdoor school? And then I can actually crack on and continue with her education, rather than fight her every ride.