NellRosk
Well-Known Member
my mare has a massive and odd shaped head for her size, she is 15hh and is in a large cob size head collar on it's last holes or a full size on first holes. she is also very big under her jaw and across her brow-she had extra full brow bands but they were still snug, I tried 3 sizes of the micklem before settling on the small horse size. It was snug around her jawline at first but is now on the second hole there so has given a bit as it has worn in.
She can join the club then
My first thought was "change your instructor". I hate the idea of ignoring what your horse is trying to tell you and forcing it to submit instead.
I would check that the bit you are currently using isn't scratched or damaged in any way and then experiment with different bits loose ring/eggbut, single joint/link/mullen mouth/port and different materials to see which suits her best. I would also experiment with moving the bit up/down to see if that makes her more comfortable.
I don't currently have one! So I need to find a new one and book some lessons when I get chance. Thank you, I'll try a few different ones and see how she reacts. I think a change is needed.