Carryonriding
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I've had my mare for about 2 months. She's 13 years old and part fresian. She is unfit and I'm bringing her back into work after 6 years of doing very little.
We've been having lessons every week and going out on short hacks. However I am becoming I increasingly impatient with her as when I've tacked her up and I'm leading her to the gate where I mount her she will plant herself to the ground and will do this every 2 steps or less. It's getting worse and worse!!
Ive tried some pressure techniques with her. Basically pulling in increasingly intense phases on the lead rope. She often moves at the slightest of pull and then stops again. It takes about 20 minutes to leave the field sometimes!! Sometimes I can pull hard for ages and she just won't budge.
If someone else is there she will move if they push her on from behind, but I'm normally alone.
Im losing the will to ride her!! She is so stubborn.
Whe. I finally get her there, mount her and gets ready to go, she spins in circles and constantly turns back to the yard. Or she just refuses to move at all. If I smack her with the whip she will buck. If she moves backwards ill let her do this until she decides its a better idea to move forwards.
HELP!!! She is hugely testing me is it a matter of pursuing with pulling her along until she realizes its not worth the effort?
We've been having lessons every week and going out on short hacks. However I am becoming I increasingly impatient with her as when I've tacked her up and I'm leading her to the gate where I mount her she will plant herself to the ground and will do this every 2 steps or less. It's getting worse and worse!!
Ive tried some pressure techniques with her. Basically pulling in increasingly intense phases on the lead rope. She often moves at the slightest of pull and then stops again. It takes about 20 minutes to leave the field sometimes!! Sometimes I can pull hard for ages and she just won't budge.
If someone else is there she will move if they push her on from behind, but I'm normally alone.
Im losing the will to ride her!! She is so stubborn.
Whe. I finally get her there, mount her and gets ready to go, she spins in circles and constantly turns back to the yard. Or she just refuses to move at all. If I smack her with the whip she will buck. If she moves backwards ill let her do this until she decides its a better idea to move forwards.
HELP!!! She is hugely testing me is it a matter of pursuing with pulling her along until she realizes its not worth the effort?