Erehwemos
Well-Known Member
This is quite possibly Ellies only real vice she is often inclined to pull away from me before I have unclipped her leadrope. And when I say pull I mean PULL she nearly dragged me flat on my face today
and I swore at her for doing so, rather loudly
Shes never been perfect in this respect, whether she is being turned out in company or on her own. She just gets excited and full of herself which is fine but it shouldnt come at the expense of good manners
I have tried several things over the years to try to alleviate the problem occasionally a treat in my hand will help keep her attention, but on days like today when her fieldmate was already in the field, she couldnt give two hoots what I have in my hand she just wants to be free. Ive tried using a chiffney, or wrapping the rope over her nose in the past, but neither really help because the problem isnt leading her out, its the simple act of actually letting her go. I always turn her to face me in the gateway, but this causes its own problems as when she does then jump away from me, she isnt averse whirling and kicking out in glee
It isnt the kind of thing I can smack her for, as any kind of physical punishment will just make her even more eager to get away from me! I have, in the past, pretended to let her go and then given her a darn good yank just at the moment she tries to pull away, but I dont think it helps much in fact it probably does the opposite! My other problem is that my hands are not the strongest anyway I broke my right hand a few years ago and have never really regained full strength back, and my left thumb has some weird deformation that means I cant grasp things as well as I should be able to and so often when she pulls away, Im left momentarily crippled
So, does anyone have any ideas how to help lessen this kind of behaviour? I cant get away from the fact that she is just feeling very good in herself at the moment, and I am glad that she enjoys going out so much. But it IS bad manners, and it also means that the lady who owns Ellies fieldmate is a bit iffy about turning her out for me (we turn each others horses out depending on who is latest at the yard). It also means that she has to have her headcollar left on (nearly broke both arms the day I tried to take it off in the gateway
) which, in the warm weather, I dont like doing.
Any ideas?
Shes never been perfect in this respect, whether she is being turned out in company or on her own. She just gets excited and full of herself which is fine but it shouldnt come at the expense of good manners
It isnt the kind of thing I can smack her for, as any kind of physical punishment will just make her even more eager to get away from me! I have, in the past, pretended to let her go and then given her a darn good yank just at the moment she tries to pull away, but I dont think it helps much in fact it probably does the opposite! My other problem is that my hands are not the strongest anyway I broke my right hand a few years ago and have never really regained full strength back, and my left thumb has some weird deformation that means I cant grasp things as well as I should be able to and so often when she pulls away, Im left momentarily crippled
So, does anyone have any ideas how to help lessen this kind of behaviour? I cant get away from the fact that she is just feeling very good in herself at the moment, and I am glad that she enjoys going out so much. But it IS bad manners, and it also means that the lady who owns Ellies fieldmate is a bit iffy about turning her out for me (we turn each others horses out depending on who is latest at the yard). It also means that she has to have her headcollar left on (nearly broke both arms the day I tried to take it off in the gateway
Any ideas?