frankieduck
Well-Known Member
I have one that gets like this, I've had him long enough he doesn't unnerve me anymore, but it is a bit tiring at times! Best trick I have learned with him is put my leg on, even though it feels counterintuitive. We used to be in a cycle of - he'd tense and spook at something, I'd tense and cling on to him, he's spin 180' and bugger off in the opposite direction. Instead, now when he spies something I put my leg on and ride him into the contact in a very workmanlike fashion, I think of it like holding a child's hand - I'm never harsh and don't bully him, but I take him by the hand and say "come on, stop being silly, we're going this way". Best advice I ever had from a 5* eventer I was lucky enough to have a lesson with was "if your horse is being silly, you need to tell them what to do, if you sit back and let them make their own decisions - they will make bad ones!" so now when I feel his brain going into overdrive I step-in and tell him "you don't need to worry, this is what we are doing, listen to me and we will be fine".