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Hi There! I don't know if I'm looking for advice or just want to vent.
A little background:
I lease a horse who is kept as a nice, but a very laid back stable. Due to travel and kid schedules on the part of the horse's owner and myself, the horse owner told the stable owner that she (the stable owner) could start riding the horse if she wanted. Not to get into a lot of background here, but that was fine with me, and we worked out a schedule that suited everyone.
One day I show up to ride the horse and I notice that her long and lovely tail is bluntly cut to just below her hocks, a good 20 cm or so was hacked off. I was pretty shocked, and I asked the owner of the horse about it, and he was surprised and annoyed himself. There are no near-term plans to compete the horse and the tail wasn't dragging on the ground, so I really don't understand the point of cutting the tail.
I'm fairly certain that the stable owner did this, as it's a small property and she is the only person looking after this horse. I realise the "boundary" lines were a little squishy here with a bunch of people who are riding this horse, but cutting the tail of a horse that doesn't belong to you without clear permission from the owner just seems wrong to me.
I've actually found myself to be irrationally annoyed about this, much more so than the horse's owner. Every time I go to see the horse the super short tail is just so, "in my face". I know I just need to let it go, and as I don't even own this horse, and it's not my place to even bring it up with the stable owner.
I don't think the horse's owner has any plans to say anything, and even if he did, it's too late to change what happened.
I guess I just want to know if, especially as a leasor, I'm bonkers to be so annoyed by this? I'm not someone who gets easily wound up in general, so I'm having a hard time understanding why this is driving me mad. Otherwise, the horse is happy and well looked after, and neither I nor the owner have any other complaints about the stable.
A little background:
I lease a horse who is kept as a nice, but a very laid back stable. Due to travel and kid schedules on the part of the horse's owner and myself, the horse owner told the stable owner that she (the stable owner) could start riding the horse if she wanted. Not to get into a lot of background here, but that was fine with me, and we worked out a schedule that suited everyone.
One day I show up to ride the horse and I notice that her long and lovely tail is bluntly cut to just below her hocks, a good 20 cm or so was hacked off. I was pretty shocked, and I asked the owner of the horse about it, and he was surprised and annoyed himself. There are no near-term plans to compete the horse and the tail wasn't dragging on the ground, so I really don't understand the point of cutting the tail.
I'm fairly certain that the stable owner did this, as it's a small property and she is the only person looking after this horse. I realise the "boundary" lines were a little squishy here with a bunch of people who are riding this horse, but cutting the tail of a horse that doesn't belong to you without clear permission from the owner just seems wrong to me.
I've actually found myself to be irrationally annoyed about this, much more so than the horse's owner. Every time I go to see the horse the super short tail is just so, "in my face". I know I just need to let it go, and as I don't even own this horse, and it's not my place to even bring it up with the stable owner.
I don't think the horse's owner has any plans to say anything, and even if he did, it's too late to change what happened.
I guess I just want to know if, especially as a leasor, I'm bonkers to be so annoyed by this? I'm not someone who gets easily wound up in general, so I'm having a hard time understanding why this is driving me mad. Otherwise, the horse is happy and well looked after, and neither I nor the owner have any other complaints about the stable.