BethH
Well-Known Member
For what it's worth I have to agree with Kerilli, I really have gone through hell with my horse - I took the well meaning advice from friends about how he was playing me up and trying it on and I had to show him who was in charge, I was told to wack him when he reared and dominate him to prove I was in charge of him - I have to say this is really not my style and makes me deeply uncomfortable when horses are gracious enough to allow you to put a lump of metal in their mouths and sit on their backs but he was a total nightmare so I decided to try it.
Luckily I was in the school when I decided to take him on, well I lost! He reared higher every time I wacked him, went over backwards and I was incredible luckily that he twisted away so as not to land on me when I flew off backwards with him, the thing is he is such a lovely character that I knew straight away i had just got it incredibly wrong and there was no way I could build a relationship of trust with him unless I found another way, I then decided to ignore said advice of more experienced horsemen and bought Perfect Manners and a couple of other books and got some decent lessons in groundwork training. I have had Ryan for 9years now he is still tricky but I have learned alot, the most important lesson I think is that there is always a reason for his behaviour and it is never based on human logic!
Luckily I was in the school when I decided to take him on, well I lost! He reared higher every time I wacked him, went over backwards and I was incredible luckily that he twisted away so as not to land on me when I flew off backwards with him, the thing is he is such a lovely character that I knew straight away i had just got it incredibly wrong and there was no way I could build a relationship of trust with him unless I found another way, I then decided to ignore said advice of more experienced horsemen and bought Perfect Manners and a couple of other books and got some decent lessons in groundwork training. I have had Ryan for 9years now he is still tricky but I have learned alot, the most important lesson I think is that there is always a reason for his behaviour and it is never based on human logic!