wes
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My wife has had a cross Irish Sport Horse/TB standing at just over 16h for a year now, he is now 7 years.
We originally bought him horse to share, and I have ridden him quite a bit, and love his forward nature and we seem to suit each others temperament.
We have recently bought a 5 yr old Irish cross drought for me also around 16h so much bigger boned, so we can enjoy riding together.
The issue is my wife is intimidated by her gelding, as he can get head strong and run away with her at a cantor, and just being on his toes sometimes. So much that we are considering swapping him out for a smaller/calmer ride for her. I don't think a stronger bit is the option, as I think she just wants a calmer more reliable ride, which I can understand and as both of us are 50+ we're not teen-ages, though I do enjoy a good blast around the woods!
The problem is I enjoy riding her boy so much....I was willing to see him go for the happiness of my wife, as he is just too much horse for her. I thought we had no option, but chatting to an instructor last night after a group lesson where I had ridden him, she thought that it would be an option for me to keep her ISH/TB as we get on so well, and my riding has improved too over the last year, and also TB have denser bone than other breeds.
I am just under 14st and reasonably fit, and normally ride 1-2 times a week, maybe a bit more in the summer. Normal rides would consist of school riding, hacks and maybe a few local shows with some small jumping, and charity ride outs.
I can imagine this is a can of worms, but what are the thoughts of 14st on a 16 hands ISH/TB?
We originally bought him horse to share, and I have ridden him quite a bit, and love his forward nature and we seem to suit each others temperament.
We have recently bought a 5 yr old Irish cross drought for me also around 16h so much bigger boned, so we can enjoy riding together.
The issue is my wife is intimidated by her gelding, as he can get head strong and run away with her at a cantor, and just being on his toes sometimes. So much that we are considering swapping him out for a smaller/calmer ride for her. I don't think a stronger bit is the option, as I think she just wants a calmer more reliable ride, which I can understand and as both of us are 50+ we're not teen-ages, though I do enjoy a good blast around the woods!
The problem is I enjoy riding her boy so much....I was willing to see him go for the happiness of my wife, as he is just too much horse for her. I thought we had no option, but chatting to an instructor last night after a group lesson where I had ridden him, she thought that it would be an option for me to keep her ISH/TB as we get on so well, and my riding has improved too over the last year, and also TB have denser bone than other breeds.
I am just under 14st and reasonably fit, and normally ride 1-2 times a week, maybe a bit more in the summer. Normal rides would consist of school riding, hacks and maybe a few local shows with some small jumping, and charity ride outs.
I can imagine this is a can of worms, but what are the thoughts of 14st on a 16 hands ISH/TB?