sparklypickle
Well-Known Member
Hello, I am after a bit of advice here. Yesterday I rode my friend's pony instead of my usual old gelding (she is more forward going and quite definitely an alpha mare), she was perfectly behaved (the normal amount of spooks) until she spied some horses up ahead of us on the way home- when she started jogging..so I circled her, got her back in a walk and halted for a moment, then walked on - sadly the horses ahead started trotting - this was apparently madam's cue to trot also and by this time we were on a narrow strip of gravel between two ditches. Despite half-halts, she stuck her head up and kept breaking into canter, and I struggled to keep her going back to trot, she even stepped to the edge of the ditch at one point, trying to avoid contact which frightened the life out of me. I could see a patch of grass in front where I thought it would be safe to turn her off, but instead asked the riders in front to walk so that I could calm the pony down. (All she wanted was to catch up and say hi!). Thankfully they heard me and blockaded our progress, and checked we were ok but due to the lack of control I had had I decided to dismount until they were out of sight. Of course I got back on we rode the rest of the way home in a walk. The problem is that I know I should have handled the situation better but i don't know how (other than the obvious - don't ride a horse or pony that's so excitable) please don't make harsh comments about how I shouldn't be riding this horse, I have ridden her a few times before and was only riding her because her owner was sick. (She was walking alongside us until we went chasing those other horses..) I just feel very disappointed in my riding, I mean, it was a similar situation with another pony who bolted in VERY muddy conditions and I didn't feel safe turning him as I figured we'd fall over...and so, not knowing the best route to stopping, I somehow just fell off
. So what do you do in situations where you are not in control but it is not safe to turn (due to sliding over / going into ditch) but the horse does not respond to the normal halt cues? I am also aware that dismounting was a bad thing to do as it was a reward for her ignoring my aids but I put both of our safety first.
I am considering taking a lesson to focus specifically on techniques for slowing a rushing horse as this really seems to be my riding downfall - and that can be a deadly downfall to have.
SP
I am considering taking a lesson to focus specifically on techniques for slowing a rushing horse as this really seems to be my riding downfall - and that can be a deadly downfall to have.
SP