Foxford
Well-Known Member
Since I got my youngster at Easter, a couple of people on the yard have been kind enough to let me have some rides on their horses. I haven't been hacking for ages and thought my nervousness was down to a little bit of "outside of the menage" syndrome, although I was fine at shows and hacking on my old horse.
After having been up half the night worrying about going out in the trailer today for a long hack, things went well. But it got me thinking why do I get anxious about riding sometimes?
I've decided the answer is I've never had or regularly ridden a "fast" horse. And the last couple of bad experiences I've had have been on such horses. Now I've been riding for about 10 years consistently. Quite an acheivment that I never managed to get the ride on a livlier horse!! Part of the problem stems from the fact we never sold my 1st pony who was a 14.1 fell, and I never got to upgrade my horses as the years went on. Since then chance has dictated that I've had lazy horses to ride (who include a TB and a TBX!). I'm very good at getting them to go forwards and work with them. However put me on a forwards horse and I think I panic that I won't be able to stop them.
I'm kind of feeling maybe it's too late for me to learn, but I can't limit myself to only riding the slow ones as I want to be a good rider. Just thought I'd add spookiness doesn't really bother me.
So how did you all do it!
Spill the beans!
After having been up half the night worrying about going out in the trailer today for a long hack, things went well. But it got me thinking why do I get anxious about riding sometimes?
I've decided the answer is I've never had or regularly ridden a "fast" horse. And the last couple of bad experiences I've had have been on such horses. Now I've been riding for about 10 years consistently. Quite an acheivment that I never managed to get the ride on a livlier horse!! Part of the problem stems from the fact we never sold my 1st pony who was a 14.1 fell, and I never got to upgrade my horses as the years went on. Since then chance has dictated that I've had lazy horses to ride (who include a TB and a TBX!). I'm very good at getting them to go forwards and work with them. However put me on a forwards horse and I think I panic that I won't be able to stop them.
I'm kind of feeling maybe it's too late for me to learn, but I can't limit myself to only riding the slow ones as I want to be a good rider. Just thought I'd add spookiness doesn't really bother me.
So how did you all do it!