CrazyCobLady
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A woman I knew years ago was given about 5 or 6 feral ponies by a farmer who wanted them off his land. And she decided I was to 'tame' and 'back' them. They were put straight into their stables - hadn't ever had head collar on, farmer reversed trailer up to boxes and manhandled each one into each box.
After letting them settle in I spent a lot of time (I was a school kid at the time, had loads of free time!) just sitting with them, feeding them, talking/singing to them and eventually moving around them in their boxes, not touching them, letting them come to me - but still no touching them. I wanted them to wonder why when they came to me I didn't respond back, and they did.
Once they were happy with me there they got quite curious and would follow me around the box (looking for treats no doubt) and trying to nose me, so I gradually started touching them, progressed to stroking and ESPECIALLY around the head, poll and neck while they fed from a bucket.
Then I jumped in with my sneaky wee trick.... noseband of headcollar in the bucket, they stuck their nose in and I ran my hands all over their head, poll, neck as I always done and got the headcollars on. I won't say it worked easily, a few spotted the headcollar, shied away etc but one or two were none the wiser.
I just gradually built it up, playing it by ear, listening to their body language and what they were reacting to, backing off when they asked me to back off, pushing it a bit more when they let me.
Before long I had tack on, driving harnesses on, rugs flapped over them, I'd make deliberate sudden movements and loud noises and they wouldn't jump through the roof. They trusted me, and I trusted them. Although they weren't ever 'good' with the farrier he could still get the job done.
Managed to ride a few, have memories of being careered round the field on one lol, broke a few to drive a cart and and one (total lost cause!) I couldn't get near at all from day one and never did.
At the time, being a school kid it was purely fun! It wasn't my job, it wasn't I MUST DO THIS, I never set myself any goals, targets or pushed myself, I just had fun spending time with the ponies.
I'm not in touch with the lady any more, but I often wonder what happened to them. No more advice than anyone else can give really, just wanted to share my experience of it![]()
What a lovely comment!