NeverSayNever
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My Sec D mare is usually a saint, however she is a bit of a stressy type.
People have seen me schooling and made comments about stronger bits however for her, its not about whats in her mouth, its all about her mental attitude. I have to work through the first 40 mins with her, keeping relaxed, doing lots of walk, transitions, circles, serpentines. If I put to much pressure on her or fight her we get nowhere, however if I wait until she is mentally ready to work with me, then pow - she goes beautifully and softly too.
Out hacking we are in the same bit, a frenchlink full cheek snaffle and she is usually fine. However, if she gets buzzed by something - Im finding it increasingly difficult to get her focus back. Ive had her 18 months and for the first year, yes she would have a spook, a typical welsh prance and snort but sitting deep, still and ignoring her and she came round pretty quickly. However since about Christmas time, she has been 'on red alert' out hacking more often than not. Not excitable, but stressed and worried. Looking for something to spook at, ready to flee. Its genuine stress and fear, like there is something she can see that I cant. Today for example, she was fine then she saw someone with a trailer driving in a field and started the whole snorting and prancing thing. However, long after this I still couldnt get her back. I just sat deep, relaxed, long rein - if I try to take a contact it makes her worse. If I put my leg on it gives her the excuse she wants to shoot forward. The thing is, she isnt strong when this happens but I feel I have little control as she tucks her head in, everything is elevated, her back is up and I feel as if I have nothing in the hand, so no bit is going to help.
Im looking into a possible magnesium deficiency as was suggested on another thread after I posted about her coat being terrible, she is also not keeping condition well. Its also been mentioned that it may be worth asking my vet about ulcers.
In the meantime, can anyone give me any suggestions as to how best to ride and deal with these episodes as usually we end up just going home for damage limitation
People have seen me schooling and made comments about stronger bits however for her, its not about whats in her mouth, its all about her mental attitude. I have to work through the first 40 mins with her, keeping relaxed, doing lots of walk, transitions, circles, serpentines. If I put to much pressure on her or fight her we get nowhere, however if I wait until she is mentally ready to work with me, then pow - she goes beautifully and softly too.
Out hacking we are in the same bit, a frenchlink full cheek snaffle and she is usually fine. However, if she gets buzzed by something - Im finding it increasingly difficult to get her focus back. Ive had her 18 months and for the first year, yes she would have a spook, a typical welsh prance and snort but sitting deep, still and ignoring her and she came round pretty quickly. However since about Christmas time, she has been 'on red alert' out hacking more often than not. Not excitable, but stressed and worried. Looking for something to spook at, ready to flee. Its genuine stress and fear, like there is something she can see that I cant. Today for example, she was fine then she saw someone with a trailer driving in a field and started the whole snorting and prancing thing. However, long after this I still couldnt get her back. I just sat deep, relaxed, long rein - if I try to take a contact it makes her worse. If I put my leg on it gives her the excuse she wants to shoot forward. The thing is, she isnt strong when this happens but I feel I have little control as she tucks her head in, everything is elevated, her back is up and I feel as if I have nothing in the hand, so no bit is going to help.
Im looking into a possible magnesium deficiency as was suggested on another thread after I posted about her coat being terrible, she is also not keeping condition well. Its also been mentioned that it may be worth asking my vet about ulcers.
In the meantime, can anyone give me any suggestions as to how best to ride and deal with these episodes as usually we end up just going home for damage limitation
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