Shysmum
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I like the idea of inviting her to ride your horse - haha !!! I wish I'd done that at the time now, esp as I was breaking in with no saddle and a very lively chap.Fab idea !! sm x
Wasn't standing up for her, I did say she sounded like a nightmare!No disrespect T_G but there's no point standing up for someone just because they aren't knowledgeable. We can all learn, there's no question, but we should be allowed to choose our own trainers!
TG im sorry but riding schools are very diff to livery. And you also will have no idea what goes on behind the scenes, Ive been at many rs where on the surface everyone gets on fabulously, behind the surface there has been sleeping with each others boyfriends, physical fights, you name it.
I find an Ipod/MP3 player does the trick.
Mine comes to the yard periodically if I just can't be pooped listening to people spout at me
Ride with earphones in - they don't have to be connected to anything if you don't want,then you can ignore and say you didn't hear because you were listening to music - actually my daughter used to buy audio dressage tests when she wanted to practice them - could be a way out that may be easier than having to be rude.
I find an Ipod/MP3 player does the trick.
Mine comes to the yard periodically if I just can't be pooped listening to people spout at me
havent read all replies but i agree with this the ipod wrks wonders
Another vote for Ipod!!!! Then you don't have to worry about hearing them talking. Could also get away with a bit of singing if they say anything afterwards!! Works a treat!!!!!!
Say: "I'm sorry, did you say something - missed it!"
and continue saying similar "Sorry, what did you say, can't hear you!"
"Sorry, don't listen to people when I'm riding - have to think about my horse and what I'm doing"
just tell her did she know empty vessels make the most noiseA friend of mine is being driven nuts by this. She's changed her shift pattern and is now at the yard at the same time as another livery. Friend is an experienced rider, who has worked with horses in the past but just has one youngster now - backed this year. Other livery (who is unable to ride own (v capable and nice) horse in an outline/jump over 2ft, that kind of person) keeps offering 'advice' constantly when friend is riding, and friend is getting increasingly annoyed by it. Friend doesn't want to be rude, but says she's going to explode soon if this woman doesn't stop telling her what to do, especially when the woman doesn't have a clue anyway!
So - any advice? What has worked for others in similar situations?
Ride with earphones in - they don't have to be connected to anything if you don't want,then you can ignore and say you didn't hear because you were listening to music - actually my daughter used to buy audio dressage tests when she wanted to practice them - could be a way out that may be easier than having to be rude.