jellyshark
Well-Known Member
As title really what is the best way to find rides/owners?
I can give you some first hand experience from an owners perspective.
I agree with the comments made by TarrSteps and Lolo. Our elder son is getting more offers of horses to produce, school and compete because he rides well, can market his business effectively and without as Lolo said any personal issues being introduced, and is seen to be professional when out and about.
Best of luck getting established.
Thanks for all the reponses - I was enquiring for my daughter....
....I just wondered if I could do any more to help!!
To add to Lolo's point about reputation, this also applies to social media. There are riders who are probably quite decent but I would steer away purely on the basis of how they deport themselves in cyberspace. There are lots of decent riders in the world,.who needs one who us going to blab your business or cause trouble.
She has had some really good, positive feedback ... but she has had very negative stuff too, which is hard to deal with, especially when you are young.
It's a tough world.![]()
Yes, don't be mean about others but be prepared for them to be mean about you. Thick skin and ability to bounce back is very helpful.
I think SM is a bit of a minefield! Everyone has such different views on it's usefulness. I absolutely agree that you have to be professional at all times though. Sometimes it can seem like you are bragging
I feel my daughter was very brave to delve into it. It is not really her style to publicly promote herself .
She has had some really good, positive feedback ... but she has had very negative stuff too, which is hard to deal with, especially when you are young.
It's a tough world.![]()
I do think younger riders do have to do something along those lines though. It's like being in the phone book or having a sign up in the local saddlery used to be - not so much advertising as a place for people to find you when they need you.
Re self-promotion. . .that really is a minefield, especially in this country! I think riders just have to grit their teeth and do it to some extent. So long as she is honest about her achievements and able to back up her claims then it's advertising not bragging. After all, Sainsbury's isn't bragging when they have on sale.![]()
A friend and I have sent horses away to stay with young , professional event riders a few times and the one thing that really gripes us is horses being sent back sore, unhappy and in poorer condition then when they left. There is no excuse for it and so many people, including 'professionals' are totally blind to how a horse should and could be looking.
My friend tried another young pro to produce a horse,and the horse came back looking fantastic and even more muscled up and my friend was delighted and sent more horses to her to school and compete and I was going to send a horse to her as well. There were lovely videos of the horses up on her website and for the owner this was very rewarding to watch!
There is a definate art to managing and producing horses if I sent mine away again, I would want them coming back looking AMAZING, this time I would watch out at shows/ events for the people who had their horses looking really muscled up and good, as well as being efficiently and sympathetically ridden.
I would always choose to send my horse to someone who can produce horses like this - over some big name.