Surbie
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That sounds rough. I hope they can see they haven't helped.Yes, we inherited a smallholding and the family business (blacksmiths, not the useful horsey kind either ) from my husband's side, moved in end of October. The land hadn't been touched for 15years, so had encroaching hedgerow to clear (and still do ) need new permanent fencing and drainage redoing. Husband and brother in law like playing with the boys toys like the digger etc, but don't actually use the fields, so they have created more work for me by digging trenches and driving tractors around it, and then leaving it because they have found something else to do. Unfortunately those are the fields I need to walk through to bring mine to the tiny bit of hard standing I cleared to do anything with mine. The big bit I cleared they filled with commissions and land rover defender carcasses for restoration (as for having shed space, forget it!). I feel very pushed out and not considered at all. I know I'm fortunate to be in this position, but it is a lot more of a slog than I was anticipating. Sorry for that whinge!
I'm a 6th winter of DIY, and so far it's pretty similar to other years. The field is wet, but ok away from the gate, and I want to get some more mud slabs down while the ground is nice and solid.
I am doing my best to get my horse out for 10+ hours a day, and actually being in is helping keep his feet in really good nick. I wish I had more mojo for riding though to be fair he has so much coat, despite being clipped, that he is a sweaty mess after very little. 3 weeks to the solstice and the downward run to spring starts!