Leo Walker
Well-Known Member
I have a stonking little 5 yr old traditional cob. I have never known a horse as strong as he is. I've owned him since he was a 2yr old, backed him myself in the September of his 3 yr old year. Since then I've got fat
and he hasnt grown as much as he was supposed to. Hes currently 14.1hh and a bit with masses of bone, and huge wide loins.
I wont ride him as I think I'm too heavy. 2 vets, 2 respected "back people" and randomly my horse dentist have told me I'm being ridiculous and to just get on with it. The last "back person" to see him came out specifically to look at him with a view to me riding him. She said he has amazing muscle tone and has an incredibly supple back. Hes currently ridden by someone who is nearly 13 stone and genuinely doesn't know shes there. I am 22% of his bodyweight including tack and only want to amble about hacking in straight lines for 20 to 30 mins. I've lost half a stone and massively increased my muscle mass and general fitness but I am fat
My friends/OH/instructor/vet etc etc are all right royally peed off with me as I wont get on him even for a 2min walk around the school. Its made more complicated as I had an horrific accident where my spine got smashed to pieces and I am damn lucky to be alive never mind walking and talking. But I have ridden since the accident and backed my boy 6 months after that, but then I had nearly a year of no riding and put 4 stone on. A friend offered me her lovely big ISH to ride and if she hadnt made me Id have bailed. She got on my case and MADE me get on and I loved it!! I was terrified and looking for any excuse not to get on, but I did and it was fab! It did make me realise I was a big blobby unfit lump though and I have been hammering it in the gym and i'm reasonably fit now, as in I can swim 30 lenghts of front crawl and then do an hours gym class.
I do have PTSD and I cant decide if I'm being ridiculous or if its just something to do with the PTSD and the accident thats stopping me??? But I read things on here all the time about people who are 10stone something who wont back their youngsters as they are 10stone7 and want to be 10stone 2, thats made up figures, but hopefully you get what i mean!
I apologise for posting yet another weight carrying thread but I gennuinely cant work out whats right and what is a hang up from my accident??? I really need some perspective on this, but if you couold try not to be too nasty and judgemental that would be awesome!
I wont ride him as I think I'm too heavy. 2 vets, 2 respected "back people" and randomly my horse dentist have told me I'm being ridiculous and to just get on with it. The last "back person" to see him came out specifically to look at him with a view to me riding him. She said he has amazing muscle tone and has an incredibly supple back. Hes currently ridden by someone who is nearly 13 stone and genuinely doesn't know shes there. I am 22% of his bodyweight including tack and only want to amble about hacking in straight lines for 20 to 30 mins. I've lost half a stone and massively increased my muscle mass and general fitness but I am fat
My friends/OH/instructor/vet etc etc are all right royally peed off with me as I wont get on him even for a 2min walk around the school. Its made more complicated as I had an horrific accident where my spine got smashed to pieces and I am damn lucky to be alive never mind walking and talking. But I have ridden since the accident and backed my boy 6 months after that, but then I had nearly a year of no riding and put 4 stone on. A friend offered me her lovely big ISH to ride and if she hadnt made me Id have bailed. She got on my case and MADE me get on and I loved it!! I was terrified and looking for any excuse not to get on, but I did and it was fab! It did make me realise I was a big blobby unfit lump though and I have been hammering it in the gym and i'm reasonably fit now, as in I can swim 30 lenghts of front crawl and then do an hours gym class.
I do have PTSD and I cant decide if I'm being ridiculous or if its just something to do with the PTSD and the accident thats stopping me??? But I read things on here all the time about people who are 10stone something who wont back their youngsters as they are 10stone7 and want to be 10stone 2, thats made up figures, but hopefully you get what i mean!
I apologise for posting yet another weight carrying thread but I gennuinely cant work out whats right and what is a hang up from my accident??? I really need some perspective on this, but if you couold try not to be too nasty and judgemental that would be awesome!